He leaves me on read sometimes and then will message me out of the nowhere. Yes, he's the only one initiating. Time to move on?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Yeah, I’d get over it. All the texting gets tired after a while anyway, I didn’t learn that until I got older though.

[Asker]

When did you realize that? I'm 24 and the guy I'm talking to is 35.

[Opinion Owner]

Far later than I should’ve lol around 28, I’m 30 now. But the long distance is such a downer because you have to rely so much on texting, and texting is cool for a while then it gets burnt out. Especially if he’s not very interesting in some aspects.

[Jacobbbb]

He's probably getting tired of being the only one putting in effort

[Asker]

Maybe but yet again... our last conversation was an in depth one and he refused to answer my questions. After a length message of mine he randomly stopped replying. Then messages me two days later with something completely unrelated.

[Jacobbbb]

I mean that's weird. If I'm having an in depth convo with someone and they ask me something on that topic, for that to go completely ignored.. yeah that's weird. Not sure what to tell you

[spartan55]

I think you have this backwards.

[Asker]

How do? Did you read my reply on the other users comment?

[spartan55]

If all you do is text with the guy it's a waste of time anyway