What does it mean when my crush follow bunch of IG models on TikTok and the ones he dated/smashed?

[Anonymous]

I am really confused about this one crush I really like. He has a TikTok account that no one knows expect me. He is following IG Models, his exes and the women he dated/smashed on that account on TikTok. And most of the IG models he follows on TikTok, he doesn’t even follow them on his Instagram account but I am sure he has secondary account on Instagram? So what does it mean like what is he trying to prove? I never expected this behavior from a man I really like for many years. This is unusual and it does bothers me a lot.

[VikingWarLord]

Monogamy ain't natural for primate mammalians especially the males.

97% of mammals are poly with noted incidences of poly in the other 3%.

You're expecting something that doesn't fit reality. You've been irreparably brainwashed into thinking this way by the CULTure (the biggest CULT out there) to think that monogamy is the quintessential form of relational bliss. He follows those other females because it's in his NATURE. Take a big whiff, because not many will EVER be able to fight their NATURE and win.

[7barbieringz]

Just because something is natural doesn't mean it's good. Literally animals like lions and squirrels R*PE the females in order to mate, that's their "natural instincts"

So the excuse that "men don't have to be faithful because it's not natural" is animal like. We hold ourselves to a higher standard as humans, our ability to think proactively is what separates us from animals. If you can't control your dick then go live in a zoo where u belong.

[VikingWarLord]

@7barbieringz You're comparing polyamory with RAPE.
Think before you type

[7barbieringz]

No I am not genius. I'm simply stating that the idea that "men aren't meant to be monogamous" is rooted in animalistic ideology. Animals rape each other, and screw anything because they aren't smart enough or developed enough to know better. WE AS HUMANS know better. So saying "monogamy isn't natural because animals don't do it" is just like saying since animals rape each other you should be able to do it to.. cuz ya know it's "natural ". I mean shitting in a toilet isn't natural either, animals shit on the floor. You gonna shit on the floor now since it's "natural"?

News flash it's not fucking natural to fuck multiple people. It just shows you have a primitive way of thinking and you belong in the wild with animals.

[VikingWarLord]

@7barbieringz Over 50% divorce rate and the infidelity rate is just as high, if not higher, since many cheaters are never caught. Many in the other 50% are living like roommates with no sex life, they hate each other and only stay for the kids, or because divorce is too expensive, etc.. while they fuuck their side piece behind closed doors. So when you cut the fat away, you have maybe a 25% chance that your marriage or relationship will last forever. And that's being extremely conservative, it's actually lower.

If you wanna talk about people "ANIMALISTIC IDEOLOGY" and "RAPE" look no further than those who CLAIM to be monogamous, while they eventually go mad being "caged" with one person, until their "animalistic" urges jump out because their spouse isn't have sex with them, and they go cheat, divorce and "RAPE" each other financially, emotionally, etc.. in Divorce Court.

You can only deny reality for so long before it hits you smack dab in the fuuckin face. You're still young, you'll realize what I said is true eventually.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Old attachments can die hard. He may still care about these past women, even on some non-sexual level. And you said crush, not boyfriend. He's in no sort of committed anything to you, and feels no obligation to you, nor to be exclusive. He's not convinced you're the one just yet, so his eyes will be everywhere else.

And if he's slept with quite a few of these past intrigues, then he's probably not stable enough in terms of commitment formation to be good future marriage material.

[EarthRealm]

Your Crush follows Hot 🥵 babes
And you Think 💭 You have the right to be Mad at him when your not even his Girlfriend.
My mind is blown baby.
Ask him Out then when he says yeah then you can Get mad babe. but Until then he doesn’t even know you like him, so he’d have no way of knowing what he was doing was Hurting you.

[DoctorSex]

Sounds like he is emotionally stunted. Your age is 25-29 so I'm guessing he is in that bracket or a little older hence my conclusion.

Kind regards,

DoctorSex

[Adronicus]

Proves his attentions not solely on you. Sounds like he's not willing to invest much of himself & keeping his options open. There's what people say & what people do, pay more attention to the do part.

[Guy13]

That’s a major inconsistency. It woukd bother me too. Fake identifications.

[QandAGuy]

In my opinion you're digging too much and making confusion for yourself. It's about knowing the person and finding mutual attraction and chemistry etc.. Step up and connect to know him.

[Blueeyes81]

I'm confused. A single guy is acting like a single guy and you are mad because you like him and don't like his behavior?

[John_Doesnt]

He's better off without you. I wouldn't want to date a social media stalker.

[Beardedman1996]

He’s keeping tabs and more than likely will go back with someone else

[Bug99]

At the moment you don't have the right to be mad at him. If what he's doing bothers you so much, then stop wasting time and ask him out.

[Wise4myage]

He's just having fun. Does he know you like him?

[RuthlessAggression]

It means your insecurity through jealousy is showing on here

[Sarahplus2]

I have never used tik tok or Instagram either.

[Iron_Man]

That’s not very nice

[LimitedBenefits101]

Jealous hore spotted.

[Anonymous]

Men can be creeps. Look for someone better.

[In_Trance]

If means nothing