Is it ok that I blocked a guy for sending me a text that said “Let’s make out when I get back!” I think it’s really inappropriate. ?

[Anonymous]

We went out like 4 times. He’s visiting family in another state. He said he gets back next week and then just said that above text. It makes me uncomfortable in an objectified way. Why not just say “Let’s go out when I’m back!”

[CindersFire]

I mean obviously it's okay to block him. As generally you are free to do as you like especially early on in a relationship. That said it depending on how the dates went, particularly if you guys have already slept together, it doesn't seem all that out of line. Granted you straight blocked him without any other messages so I'm guessing you weren't that into him.

[Anonymous]

"Objectified." What nonsense! You've dated and he feels attracted. Is this a shock to you that a guy would want to get physical?

So you are pissed about him being open and candid about his desire?

[Asksomeonelse]

To be honest, I would've done the same thing regardless of who it was, though I'm sort of curious as to happens when you block someone. Are they notified that they've been blocked by you?

[Asker]

I’m not sure if he’d know I blocked him but I don’t care.

[Asksomeonelse]

Hmm. In that case you might want to let him know you're interested just in case he gets the impression that you might be. For practicality purposes that is

[Asker]

Well he also has a drinking problem. His breath always smells like alcohol

[spartan55]

I think maybe you are being a bit uptight.

[bubblegunnn]

Its a big turn off

[LazerBean]

Yeah it's okay.

[Bballwomani]

Yess