** Friends, please no judgment... I'm looking for honest perspectives*** As in the question, my ex and I broke up a few days ago and I stopped talking to him after that because obviously, I'm hurt, and I just didn't know what else to say... A few days later he texted me about how he had my stuff and wanted to set up a time to exchange it sometime this week (Wednesday or Thursday), so I called him to set up a time. While on the phone, he kept saying how he was having a really rough time with the break up and wanted me to text him regularly (as if things were normal?) and how I had "nothing to be sorry about". It almost sounded like he was regretting the break up.. but he never made outright statements that he was sorry for what happened or anything. Anyway, after some time on the phone, he changed his mind and said he wanted to meet on the weekend so we could have "more time to talk about things", which I just said ok. And he kept stressing that he wanted me to talk/text him and respond. I know my details are probably like.. ok so what... but, we've been texting now pretty consistently, and of course, I love talking to him, but for the way I process things after a break up, the talking makes it hard on me emotionally. And after hearing his voice and our conversation on the phone, I'm confused about whats going to happen this weekend. Is there a chance I'm reading too much into his behavior? Might it be that he's just trying to make this a civil break up and simply end things on a good note, exchange items and leave? Or is there a chance he's experiencing regret and wants to talk about giving it another shot? I'm nervous about it because I don't want to get my hopes up and then have my feelings hurt again.
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I mean it also depends on why you guys broke in the first place. Sounds like he is having a hard time and yes you should not get your hopes up. Meet up and see what he has to say but have a clear conversation as to what is it that each other wants
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Don’t get your hopes up. He probably just wants to end things on a good note.
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here's a very simple solution... you ready for it? here it is...
ASK HIM
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