Can you still be important and special to a guy who’s friendly and nice to everyone?

[Anonymous]

I like a really good sweet guy. He’s told me he likes me back but we’re still figuring out how we want to proceed. He’s funny, cute, smart, sociable, etc. I love all that about him but it’s also my biggest “issue” with him. I usually tend to fall for “meaner” guys because they’re always nice to me and less friendly to other people. I’m not use to the guy I like being more I guess like-able. It leaves open to much opportunity for other girls to fall for him, get the wrong impression, and overall it makes me feel like I’m not that special to him. It freaks me out because if he’s nice to everyone and he treats me nicely is there even a difference between me and all the other girls he talks to? I don’t want another guy but him how do I get over this?

[WagyuMoo]

Communication is extremely important in building a healthy relationship. So talk to him. You need to proactively chase a conclusion to the questions do we want to stay friends or do we want to enter a committed and serious relationship with each other.
As for the other answers do not let them project their own failed relationships onto your potential one.

[spartan55]

Geez, you are jealous without even having a legit reason. You should get that in check before any relationship.

[Asker]

People keep saying the obvious “fix it” as if that’s any help. I get I’m jealous at lest give actual advice on how to do better dipshit

[spartan55]

You want to start with the name calling you fucking dumb shit pink anon? So I'm a dipshit because I point out the facts? ... you do better by not being jealous, it's simple. Or do it your way, and watch all your relationships fail because of it.
Here's the thing pink anon, if he's gonna cheat there is NOTHING you can do about it. You acting like a jealous freak will make him resent you, not make him more loyal.

[Asker]

THATS STILL NOT A FUCKING RESPONSE STOP BEING JEALOUS IS NOT A GODDAMN ANSWER I ASKED HOW. IF I ASK HOW TO MAKE A CHAIR AND YOU SAY JUST PUT TOGETHER THAT IS NOT AN INSTRUCTION. EITHER GIVE ME SOLID ADVICE OR LEAVE ME THE FUCK ALONE AND STOP BEING A DICK

[Asker]

look I’m sorry for being aggressive and irrational but I’m tried of people give bs responses that’s not advice if I don’t know how to do that. I can’t catch a fish I don’t know how to hold a rod in the first place end of story thank you for your response❤️

[spartan55]

I don't think you want to change. So the last paragraph of my last response wasn't advice? You probably didn't even read it. I mean wtf are you wanting?

[spartan55]

You have no idea how much of a bigger dick I can be. So keep it up smartmouth.

[Asker]

I wnat you to explain how to stop being jealous. Jealously is just like any emotion it can’t just be switched off man. If someone wants to be happy they should do something they love is someone wants to stop being jealous I don’t know what they should do. I want to change but I don’t know what to do. I don’t get what you don’t get to be honest?

[Asker]

No idea why you feel the need to be an ass while I’m trying to calm down and me reasonable

[spartan55]

Who said I don't get anything? Did you read the paragraph I wrote about what you can and cannot control?

[OlderThanILook]

Just stay single lol. Your jealousy will make you both miserable. Or don't. I'm not your boss.

[Asker]

Did even answer the question or try to help. I guess when anyone has any flaws instead of working them out they should just be lonely for life right?

[OlderThanILook]

Yes, precisely. That's what y'all have taught me

[Asker]

The fact you believe generalizations and weird shit like that shows you’re immature and refuse to change/acknowledge your own flaws. By your logic you’ll also be alone forever, good luck.

[OlderThanILook]

Sure

[es20490446e]

Date an asshole instead, get mentally harmed, then you will see his problem with different eyes :D