I slept with my crushes friend, when we were both drunk, I had no plans of it and even stopped after 2 minutes because I realised I didn't want to do it. My crush knows about it and that I stopped... Would you still like a girl who did that? (I didn't know he liked me, only now I know.)
"Is it beyond repair?"
You best bet would be to physically sexually seduce him immediately. Talking it through, trying to explain it won't help. He thinks that you're using him. If you can get him in bed and that goes well enough then maybe you can have a future, but right this moment he's thinking that his attraction to you was a complete mistake and he's reevaluating his whole process.
Not to mention that the first guy will feel like the second guy immediately after that.
This is why you should be careful when you make this decision, and not make it lightly.
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DEFINITELY not. One, if you can't keep control to stop getting yourself from getting these situations in the first place like I try to (you actually did it for two minutes), then I am definitely abandoning any crushes I may have had on you.
Two, you slept with someone else and that would make me really jealous. I don't need to and don't want to obsess or even think over stuff like that. Sorry.
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Probably not as I would never be able to fully trust her...
No she is off my list, she have to settle with my friend if he wants her.
Earlier in life I would have looked passed it. These days; no.
The fact that you stopped 2 minutes in is a silver lining, but overall, girls who sleep around that easily are not girlfriend material
Being drunk is no excuse for anything - ever.
Could still like her, just wouldn't consider her in the same light as before.I wouldn't care if she went all the way. She's my crush, not my girlfriend.
yes girls are here for sex too, just like us guys
I don't know, I'd call it a longshot now.
I don't want a slut
You dun goofed
Nope women like you are whores
Nope.
No. Lol
🦆 no
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