Me and my ex broke up still sees me and sleeps with me and wants to stay over , but if I leave fights to stay in in my life he doesn't want to commit?

[ellenbutler1]

broke up but after 2 years still wants to stay in my life , but doesn't want to commit but so many times I've left , he fights to stay in my life , phoning my friends.. texting my next door neighbough to see if my cars there to come over , but doesn't want a relationship , it was my bday and not even a happy bday , he made such a effort to come back in my life , i said I've had enough of you coming in and out my life stay in contact , he did then asked to come round and didn't , and i haven't heard from him since its been 5 days.. nothing , why try so hard to come back i my life to just to not bother.. he's always active on whatssapp on tinder still but still wants to see me , if i piss him off he blocks me on instagram to punish me but still want to see me why?

[MrOracle]

If he doesn't want to commit to you, why are you wasting your time and ignoring what YOU want?

Assuming your listed age is correct, you're already more than half-way though your most valuable years - the years when you can attract the very best partner for a long-term relationship/marriage. But you don't have a lot of time left - your value on the social marketplace is still extremely high, but it's dropping, as your youth and fertility are going by.

Do you really want to squander that messing with this guy who won't commit to you, just because he wants to keep having sex with you? Because that's what's going on. He still wants you as his own, exclusive side girl to bang, but he is quite clear that he never intends to commit to you.

Once you hit about 30, a whole class of men will no longer be available to you, EVER AGAIN - men that you can still attract right now. And the older you get, the larger the percentage of men that you'll no longer have access to.

You can do what you want to do - it's your life - but if you want to maximize your long-term outcome, then you need to act NOW, and start taking your relationships seriously, and stop wasting your time with men who don't take relationships seriously. Tons of guys will want to tie you up and keep you as their own live sex doll, and will do so if you let them, but is that what YOU want? And if it's not, then why would you ever allow it, and why would you ever get so deeply involved with such a man in the first place?

Life is hard, and not everything goes as planned, but if you don't make smart decisions, then your opportunities will pass you by, and many only come once in a lifetime, and there's no guarantee that more will be coming along later. So many women are in their mid-30s, who had sloppy, boundary-less relationships in their 20s because they were "having fun", and they thought they'd always have great options available to them, waiting for them until they were ready. Then they hit their 30s, and it takes a couple of years to realize that so many of those options are gone, and gone for good, and then those women get really upset. Don't be one of those women.

[OlderAndWiser]

WITF are you doing? "Break up" means I;m not going to see you again, no more sex, no more holding hands, no more kisses, and I am moving forward with my life. . . without you. If you want him in your life (big mistake,) then be honest about what you want. And if you don't want him, stop all contact with him. All contact. No phone calls, no texts, nothing! You are creating drama in your life and making your own misery.

[Jamesshinobi]

he likes to have sex with you but he can't fuckimg stand you outside of orgasim which is the equicilant of stroking for a few minutes. thats your worth. thanks for letting us all know you suck, i guess

[Guy13]

Are you going to go and stay? Thinking about getting back together?

[AviatorTom]

If you're still seeing him, and allow him to see you, he's not really your ex, is he?

[CuriousMufuxka]

You my young friend are a side dish. This man has you so far in check that you don't know what to do with yourself. I would give advice, but you wouldn't follow any of it.

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you're dealing with an immature, selfish, habitual line-stepper.

[Anonymous]

You love him. You obviously are a match for him unwise why would he and you be in each others lives

[Iron_Man]

You guys need to have a very serious conversation and Decide what you want

[KrakenAttackin]

He still wants to tap your ass but doesn't want to deal with your bullshit. Sounds ideal.

[spartan55]

Because you let him. He stays for sex, that's it.