So my ex wants to get back together slowly?

[Anonymous]

I was with him all yesterday drove an hour to see him and he bought me food and dice for my car. Which was nice. But today i see him liking girls pictures yet again even though he won’t respond to me because he’s at “work” but he’s well able to like girls pics lol. But anyways I didn’t say anything and I said if he wants to be with me slowly he won’t mind if I request to follow him on instagram now I know he won’t accept my follow request as he probably has pics up with him and girls but at I not right in saying if he wants to make a go of things he should let me?

[spartan55]

You are valuing social media WAY too much. Liking pics? Really? Amazing.

[Asker]

Well if he was really that focused on me he wouldn’t be liking other girls pics now isn’t that right?

[spartan55]

If you say so. You act as if that actually means something.

[Asker]

Well yeah it is as there girls he met some how when we broke up one in her bikini and I can’t even get a text back because he’s busy in work if u think that’s fine then okay he’s on bad terms with me he broke up with me for a year and went off with other girls if he wants me like he says he does he shouldn’t be liking girls pics am I not right?

[spartan55]

If you think that means something then why are you getting back together with him?

[Asker]

I’m not I’m waiting to find out the truth he doesn’t want to be with me he knows that and I know that but I’m going along with like he does so I can find out the truth he won’t accept my follow request on instagram why do u think that is? Because he’s hiding something it’s obvious won’t tell his family that he’s been seeing me either is this not concerning or am I just dumb?

[spartan55]

Okay that first sentence makes no sense. You aren't getting back together but you are waiting for the truth... huh? what?

[Asker]

Look I wanted to be with him all year since he left me I tried and tired got no where but only used and disrespected. We both went to a festival last weekend and I seen him with loads of girls after it he decides he wants me and wants to make a go of things kinda changed his persona real quick now wants to try even though I seen him the Monday evening after the festival and he was covered in glitter all around his beard when asking him about it he told me the girls put it all over his beard ignoring that fact I’m going along with pretending he wants to be with me when he doesn’t it’s all on his terms so I’m gunna play him at his own game and I requested to follow him on instagram now that shouldn’t be a problem since he wants to make ago of things I should be allowed but I won’t be there will be an excuse to why he can’t guarantee it but I’m made believe he loves me and cares lol now do u get me?

[spartan55]

I don't get how you think you are playing him at anything and what social media has to do with it. You think that you are somehow going to flip things around, make him care, then screw him over? Honey, you are seriously out of your mind. In order for that to even possibly work he has to actually care about you, which he clearly doesn't. Have some self respect ffs.

[Asker]

Why social media has something to do with is he’s letting on to me he’s not been with any girls or that but I noticed he’s put up 7 new pictures since that festival I know 1000 % girls are in them and he won’t want me seeing that so that’s why he wants to pretend he’s this good fake guy to me so he can sleep with me and play me like he did do. I just want to find out the truth for my self prove myself that I’m right as I’m made believe I’m crazy by him that I “accuse him” if that is so why does he keep getting caught in things like tinder and with other women despite the excuse oh there friends or they have bfs yeah right

[spartan55]

You already know the truth. He sounds like a complete shitbag that you have wasted too much time on. You really think he will give a fuck once you 'find the truth'? Then he will feel terrible and come crawling back? Fuck no, he will just keep right on doing the same thing. Why wouldn't he, he knows you will tolerate it.

[Asker]

Nah he will feel guilty because he will feel bad as too why he ignored my last text because I followed him on instagram then texts back how are you? Because he knows. So I texted back I’m good thanks how are you? See he’s ignoring my instagram request he knows he can’t accept it I knew I was right. Wants to pretend like he didn’t notice or he’s “busy” at work or is waiting for me to flip out so he can use the “this is why it won’t work out between us as look at you your crazy that’s why I didn’t accept your follow request “ see I don’t want to give him an excuse so I’m gunna play chill

[spartan55]

He won't feel guilty... smh. I still don't fully understand your plan, but it's not going to work. Just cut him off for good.

[Asker]

So I asked him about it and he’s saying he never got it and is ignoring it lol

[spartan55]

How can he ignore it if he never got it?

[Asker]

He’s lying he did get it he just doesn’t want to accept it lol funny how things change quickly when I ask to follow him on instagram yesterday he told me he loved me lol funny that

[spartan55]

Yeah funny, like you made your big point. I mean when is your big AHA! moment?

[Asker]

Fine you were right and I was wrong

[spartan55]

So now what?

[Asker]

He’s blocked as I just could listen to him telling me how I’m negative and all the rest

[spartan55]

Until the next time he wants you back.

[Asker]

Ah no enough is enough what more can I do and how clear can he make it that he doesn’t want me. I’ve done everything and got no where the only way I could have something which is very little is if I just accept him and girls and be the back burner and I think or I know I’m much more than that

[spartan55]

Yeah, for sure.

[Anonymous]

🤣🤣🤣

[Asker]

I am right tho 😂

[Opinion Owner]

I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣

[Asker]

Is it really that funny tho 😅

[Opinion Owner]

I'm just laughing at his situation...🤣🤣

[Asker]

Why is his situation funny tho?