Does he seem jealous cause I’m supposedly dating?

[Anonymous]

He reacted to a picture I posted if myself showing he liked it, then deleted it when I put another one up on my story captioning it as “anyone else cancel dates last minute.” Then he said started talking to me like this and ignoring me.

[PamelaRivers]

He does seem a little jealous, but trying to send the message he doesn't care.

[Asker]

Yeh that’s the kind of vibe I’m getting, seems off

[bobby_bush_eater]

He seems jealous and handling the situation rather immaturely, could be reading into that a bit much tho

[ohsheeT]

I don't know if he's jealous I think he's just upset that you might be with somebody else that's all

[virginloserguy]

He calmly said he did not care. He said they do not worry about it. He does not want to sit back and watch you date other men.

[Asker]

So he’s not jealous

[virginloserguy]

No, he was not fighting or anything. He just does not want to waste his time because you can never see him as a boyfriend, and he does not want to be friends.

[Asker]

But then added me to his private story straight after which is strange and he just ignoring me

[virginloserguy]

I do not understand the details are not very clear. What did he put on the story? Did it look like he was mad? Or was it just a friendly tag?

[Asker]

So I posted a picture of myself and he replied to it, with a bitmoji because he liked my picture.. I then posted another one of me captioning it as “anyone else cancels last min dates.” He saw that and deleted his last message (where he complimented me) I asked why and then u can see it on the screenshot pics I posted. He just became very blunt as u can see and started ignoring me, which he doesn’t do! After that he puts me on his private story.

[Asker]

U wouldn’t see someone going on a date and be bitter and tell them to enjoy? You’d genuinely be happy and ask them details about it. I don't know he seems odd his behaviour

[virginloserguy]

To me, it sounds like he does not think you like him the same way he did. I think he is upset because he thought you felt the same.

[virginloserguy]

I mean, nobody likes rejection. So, of course, he is upset. And he probably feels you were too passive to tell him you are not interested. He might have thought it was going somewhere, but you took a more passive approach when he realized his feelings were hurt. I do not believe he is jealous. Just upset that he invested all that time talking to you only for you to date someone else.

[Asker]

I told him I cancelled it and it didn’t matter, he just seemed annoyed but I don't know, I feel bad cause I’m only interested in him. He’s not listening

[virginloserguy]

Yeah, the girls canceled on me before too. And I did not listen to excuses because I thought they were too passive and did not want to tell me they did not like me. I automatically assume a girl is playing games or being too passive when I hear her cancel a date with me.

[Asker]

No I didn’t cancel on him, I cancelled on the other guy I had a date with, but he thinks I’m dating that’s why he’s texting me like that.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, he seems jealous cause you are dating someone else.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

People assuming that intersexual friendships are wrong.

[Asker]

Does he seem jealous

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Perhaps. I’ve felt that type of jealousy a few times, but I didn’t estrange from the girls that already had boyfriends. I felt no anger towards the girls.

[BJP21]

Just the first line alone makes it seem he's a control freak. Id run.

[Asker]

What line?

[Staximus]

Find somebody who can communicate like an adult, not an illiterate moron

[spartan55]

You already posted this, why again?

[Zolly99999]

Yeah I think he is

[Sixgunsound]

A bit, yes.

[innerman]

Just... ‘NO

[Asker]

How?