Okay so three years ago, a guy I was friends with and I reconnected, I think he had stronger feelings for me then I did for him and I ghosted him because I thought he was a little bit needy but he kept writing to me for a little while. After that happened I think he still really really missed me and his posts seems almost like they are written for me like he would post pictures of our favorite places, bought a new camera and the like. Even though I didn't respond, I felt he still really cared--almost too much.
I recently found out that apparently there was a Penthouse model who shared the same name as me who we looked almost like twins and he flew out several thousand miles to go meet with her and now they're apparently good friends!. He flew out there twice and even did a photo shoot with her doing the same activity that we used to enjoy doing. It is worth noting that for him, seeing this model involved getting a passport and flying to a town 7,000 miles away that involved three flights in each direction.
Finally this past week I found out that he is even planning to fly out to the same Central Asian country my dad was from and go on a tour! I think he feels like in a way he's reconnecting with me again. What should I do? I should say that he's never had a harsh word to say to me and seems like a very nice guy but just doesn't seem to understand that I don't really want to be in his life the way he wishes I would be.
