What do I have to do differently if my friends are sick of me constantly upset over guys that show interest but don’t want a relationship?

[anonbrunette99]

[Andres77]

Are you giving up sex immediately and then wondering why guys don’t stick around? And your friends are tired of hearing you complain about it?

im trying to make sure I understand the question

[anonbrunette99]

No it’s more like I fall for guys that I meet that have shown me some interest then I wonder why they don’t want me but they flirted with me or shown interest at some point

[Andres77]

Fall for? Maybe they think you come on too strong.

[RealMarek]

Accept that this is a common struggle and don’t whine about it. Keep your standards high and wait for a guy who will commit.

[anonbrunette99]

Best comment! Maybe I should vent to them less and refresh my knowledge on establishing interest and red flags and try to weigh out the situation myself in future and trust my own judgment

[RealMarek]

Definitely read up on red flags. Develop strategies to flesh out whether men are truly interested in you as a person or whether they just want your body. One strategy is to make them date you for some time before sex. Read up on pick up artist techniques so you don’t get played and on personality disorders so you can learn to recognize toxic behavior.

It’s okay to discuss this stuff with your friends, but instead of complaining stay focused on how you all can be better at finding good men.

[JPresidente]

I’d say be yourself, don’t give in to sex right away, be open to trying new things and show interest in the guy and the right one will come along. Just be cautious and avoid the F boys.

[20yearsolder]

Stop talking to them about it. Obviously they don't want to hear it anymore.

[Anonymous]

It depends. When's the last time you had sex?

[anonbrunette99]

July

[Opinion Owner]

So three months, huh? Is that an uncomfortably or unusually long time for you to go without? What would you like in a new guy that the last one lacked?

[Anonymous]

You could try using your head, just sayin