After reading this and your second update, unfortunately I don’t think this is a matter of him being regretful. I’m really sorry, what he did was wrong 100%, but if he’s cheating in his teen years, this is immature and selfish behavior. He doesn’t care so much about hurting you as he cares about getting caught. I think his reaction to you at the party was him not being sure if he should approach you and say something to break the ice since you were trying to ignore him as well, but it wasn’t some deep feeling of loss and regret. If it were, I guarantee he would act on it and he chose not to. Anyway, I think ignoring him until he finds the balls to approach and apologize for cheating, if he’s even really sorry. Find closure on your own, move forward and leave him be. Getting over your first heartbreaks and all that can really suck, but it gets easier overtime. I only say this from having went through all this from 15-18 with the “love of my life”.
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It's that exact thing - it's the fact you don't bother or speak to him - that's why he's acting like that. It seems like he regrets losing you and regrets everything he did. However at the same time he's being flakey, he probably thinks you know you deserve something better. Still, I wouldn't give him another chance.
This isn't a tough read; if you were going to do something like that, what would your motivation be?
Why are you watching your ex watch you?
It's like you don't know how to break up...
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