Why does a man I work with act like this with me now?

Anonymous

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Some days he’s got his arms round me, flirting, having a laugh, joking around, teasing me, giving me compliments on my looks, sometimes even texting me at night about random stuff or things he’d know I’d enjoying watching on Netflix.

Then other days I’ll go to his desk to hand out paperwork etc and say hi and he won’t even look up from his laptop and just ignore me or be very grumpy with me and seem angry.

This has been going on for a while now and he never used to be like this with me it was just a normal work place relationship that didn’t go beyond a good morning/smile.

Then I guess we got to know each other better and that’s when he started to become a lot more friendly/flirty but also at the same time become very moody with me that I now feel very anxious around him because I don’t know how he’s going to act.

He did apologise to me about it one night at a work event/party when he was a little drunk then he said liked me then just walked away lol…

Do you think he just gets stressed out at work and it’s nothing to do with me? I’d hate to think I’m annoying him. I never text him first outside of work it’s always him initiating messages etc…

Why does a man I work with act like this with me now?
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