Ok so this older guy I been dealing with have been dating me for almost 3 months now. We never had sex even though he wanted to but he was very patient and even wanted to wait for all of that. Recently we were otp , good conversation and I told him I wanted to see him that night. He said ok I wanna see you too and told me he would call me back in about an hour after he leave hanging out with his homeboy (one of them I met). So I said ok. As time goes on it’s getting late , and it’s midnight still no call or text. by the way this was on a Friday night. So then Saturday comes I still here nothing from him. Now it’s Sunday and nothing still. So I am very confused on what happened. There was no argument , we been talking normally , he calls me and all. He even insisted I be more direct if I wanna see him and that’s why I took his feedback and said ok I want to see you. Any reasonings as to why he would not just say anything , I’m very confused.. on what’s wrong
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Have you ever been to his home?
No I have not
Do you even know where he lives?
Yes , exact address no cause I don’t like to go over guys houses if I’m still getting to know them more
There is a possibilty that he is married, living with a girlfriend, or otherwise has someone else who is a higher priority when she is available. Maybe that's not it, but. . .
Yeah I’ll never know the truth but thanks
I know that's not what you want to hear but if it's the truth, better to learn now than later.
Yeah Thankss
Did he get arrested while out with his buddy?
Or maybe got in a car crash and is in the hospital?
Lots of legit reasons that explain it. Don't jump to conclusions
Loll that’s a lot of serious scenarios. who knows and I won’t be reaching out because I already expressed I wanted to see him that night 🙂 so I guess we will never talk again unless he reach out
Clearly he was lying
I mean it’s not Soo clear when you have shared intimate moments , and been talking to that person all day
Doesn't seem like time well spent now, does it
Who know atp🤷🏾♀️