Guys! what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

Okay I messed around one time with this guy and when he seen me in person and video called me on the phone he told me that he loved me, I told him you can't love me you don't know me. Then a few weeks later in text I asked him what he thinks of me and he just said I don't think nothing of you, you are just someone to hookup with. But he still calls me and asks me "do you wanna fuck" but I always turn him down.. but why does he keep asking?

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1 y

But he also talks rudely to me in text and says i'm a slut, so I quit replying to his texts. Plus he was the one who said he didn't want a relationship with me in the beginning, I don't get him at all? Its been 2 months.. He is only the 2nd guy I been with.

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1 y

On a side note he said he was a virgin, and he is 23 so... maybe that plays a part in all of it :/

[Guy13]

Yeah, that's a little crazy "i love you" like that and I would have thought the same thing but probably not said it. I would have been alright... so... what does that mean?

Figuring out his true intention seems like the first step in this equation. Do you think that first response was sincere or was he trying to set you up for the friends with benefits? Relationship or friends with benefits from the beginning for him?

[Asker]

I don't know he seems like a nice guy in person but in text he is a douche... but maybe he just wanted to set me up to be friends with benefits...

[Guy13]

I think best case is friends with benefits. Worse case sounds like an abuser of some sort. the text/person difference actually displays a bit of bipolar. How he is... is in the texting. He knows how to behave... standing in front of you. Distance from him IF it was me...

[Summeroflove]

He wants to use you for sex. Also depends on what you mean by messed around. If you mean had sex…. This is why you should have standards. Seems you get all the weirdos because decent men don’t act like that

[SnowedIn]

He got over attached too much too soon and now he can't let go. He keeps asking because he thinks your answer will change.

[Avicenna]

Because he has a big geo and thinks he can get you to have sex with his dumb ass

[Matrix3003]

She probably only wants sex but with time he can change because him sees you like and interesting girl for a potential relation.

[Nahid1707]

There were some red flags you missed out
I’m not sure who he is to you
Only saying you missed some red flags

[Anonymous]

Nothing ventured nothing gained. Sometimes 50 "no's" and a restraining order actually means "yes"😆😆😆

[noohair]

Because he did not have to take you out and spend money on you to get laid, you is freebie to him.

[Furious_Revelation19]

He probably just wants sex from you and nothing else. Seems like he tried to emotionally manipulate you.

Possibly he is just mental.

[Anonymous]

He has used you. Have nothing to do with him in the future.