Is this suspicious of my boyfriend of three years?

[Anonymous]

boyfriend and I been together through rough times (my insecurities being a big part of that) he hasn’t cheated from what I’ve known and he has tried his best to reassure me. He lets me look through his phone but it really irritates him that I have to do it everytime I see him. He will show me anything I want if he’s on his phone no issue but once I grab it and go through it, it really irks him. Anyways the other day I looked through it twice and I played around trying to go through it again and he grabbed it before I could and accident scratched me. Is this weird?

[spartan55]

It's weird that you insist on going through your boyfriend's phone EVERY single time you see him. I can't speak for all guys, but I can say that most guys would have dumped you by now. You had to look through his phone THREE times in a day? That's fucking ridiculous and should feel really lucky your only gets irritated.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know. If you both agree you can go through one another’s phone that’s fine. But for me it’s personal property I don’t let anyone use my stuff without permission.


If you have a bad gut feeling. You might be right

[kylee2437]

That’s your own problem for having trust issues. He has done nothing wrong to you and you are in the wrong here invading his privacy because you are insecure and need therapy

[Shamalien]

I think this is fkd

[Shamalien]

And by this I mean YOUR behaviour