Guys, Why would a man in his thirties act this way?

[Anonymous]

Show obvious signs of interest, then start avoiding you. Refusing to kiss or sleep with you, badmouthing you to mutual friends, then start following you around everywhere and trying to talk to you the following year?

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Also, what are some red flags to look for early on, before you start dating a man? To stay safe?

[Summeroflove]

Well. If you’re wanting to sleep with him and he said no and you keep pursuing it. You probably creeped him out

[Asker]

I wanted to date him. I asked him out four times, then changed his mind and stalked me for a year. But I get how that could be seen as creepy, if he wasn’t interested. But why the mixed signals?

[Summeroflove]

He rejected you. You should have left him alone.

[Summeroflove]

Depends on what he did to stalk you. Yeah that’s very weird. Why would you want someone whose stalking you anyways?

[Asker]

I left him alone. My friends tried to set us up and he changed his mind when I decided I wasn’t interested and stalked me online messages and showing up wherever I was.

[Summeroflove]

Okay that’s weird.

[Asker]

Yes.

[Summeroflove]

I don’t know what to tell you. Other then avoid him and if you feel in danger call the cops

[Asker]

Thanks, I’ll avoid him 😊👍

[Summeroflove]

You’re welcome probably the best move

[Guardian45]

Ya, he's a LOSER! DTMFer!