My 4 years guy friend called me bestie. Why?

[Meryln]

He is a guy friend whom I known for 4 years plus. I likes him more than a friend. But we never talk about it. Now since I’m not getting any respond from him I’m avoiding myself to let him go and find someone who loves me. But now he tries to reach me out all of sudden. He calls me for dinner with his siblings, text me often. And now he address me as BESTIE!! He never address me in such way before this. What he is trying to say. I’m confused!

[Anonymous]

He probably noticed that you are disappearing and takes it as you’re mad at him or he did something wrong, and he doesn’t want to lose you as a friend, so he’s letting you know how important you are to him as such a close friend so you won’t leave.

[Meryln]

Now the matter is I have feelings for him. I would like to commit with him, I’m just worried he said bestie with a sense of keeping me in friendzone.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, right now you are a friend and that’s why he’s saying it. If you confess your feelings things could change.

[Summeroflove]

Probably because you’re really good friends. If you’re so into him. Maybe talk about your feels over dinner and see if he wants to go on a date.

[Alex8736]

have the 2 of you ever had sex in the past?

[Meryln]

Nope