So i went to MUN contest , it was in another city and this guy in my committee was from a different city too, i stopped believing in love in sense of emotions at that point (just turned 18) and when i saw him it was so unbelievable he seemed like a movie star i couldn't put my eyes off and kept looing, beautiful guys are high in game and not up emotionally so i ignored and to my surprise he started looking at me during all sessions, when i first did speech he sent me appreciation chit i thought i was being dreamy so i took it casually but he was looking at me, let me tell u he is in 9th grade and im in 12 th so i hesitated coz i thought i was overthinking i looked down when he would look at me coz i didn't want to be like rest of girls that were asking for his insta he was around me always , once i was talking in group he came and stood SO FREAKING CLOSE TO ME and was looking at me form corner of eye and i became quiet and scared OF FALLING IN LOVE OR BEING PLAYED but he was so gentle with his love i still doubt im dreaming , he asked me to join his team and i asked him to add my points too and he was like yeah write whatever you want with the biggest smile the way he said hey come , follow me ISTG STUPID HIGHSCHOOL GUYS OF MY SCHOOL DONT HAVE THAT TENDERNESS i knew he lives afar so i avoided all but i had a feeling he likes me so it was all over i came back to my city , crying FOR NO REASON THAT AN MUN ENDED i felt like i know him for years tho i was really avoidant to talk to him , i wrote poems like i did in 7 grade when i was so emotional and in love I don't know IM 18! I had this urge to follow him after a week i did and he accepted my request in a sec, i posted a story and he liked it (like I don't know if it is a big thing but he liked it in instant) he posted his award from MUN which i thought was on purpose but im falling hard for him we are not in same city plus he is young but I don't know wht is happening to me this feeling is so intense
I don't know if im acting weird or fantasizing?
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I don't know if this is weird or fantasizing as much as it is you are crushing hard on him.
ok so this guy posted a story saying he is going to delete account for studies and then after 4 days came back saying ''it's for a reason'' , he posted all pictures from that MUN event and when i posted my story he was the first one to watch , any connection? This time he didn't tike my story my friend said it is coz i didn't like his stories but I don't know if he is tryna get attention by saying im going from insta and then coming saying coming back for a reason with posting all pictures from old event we met..
Interesting additional details. I still don't think it's weird behavior (or fantasizing). But, yes, I think he likes you and I think he's trying to get your attention.
thank u so much for your quick reply , sometimes needed when thoughts get clouded , men in all honesty are just out of my mind especially when u are tryna be modest and think for long term and seek and observe a lot to not get distracted from studies for a player , old generation IN ALL HONESTY had better relations , they longed for the fantasized stories for love now love is more of a rational thing and a lot more of manipulative tactics that u have to decode like no i better should have been born in 1900s
As a 48 year old man, yes, it was easier (sort of) back before social media and the internet. We didn't understand each other any better but we didn't have to deal with all these channels and sources of information.
yeah sus as today he watch my story after an hour and dint see rest of em my friend said he might got hint from u that u are not interested when u didn't like back his stories like he did , by wht guy said online it is like when a man gets too much into a girl and she dont reply back to his efforts he creates self discipline for himself I don't know if that's in my case
You really fell hard for this guy! It's risky to be so much into a guy you barely know. Let's be careful out there.
ok so this guy posted a story saying he is going to delete account for studies and then after 4 days came back saying ''it's for a reason'' , he posted all pictures from that MUN event and when i posted my story he was the first one to watch , any connection? This time he didn't tike my story my friend said it is coz i didn't like his stories but I don't know if he is tryna get attention by saying im going from insta and then coming saying coming back for a reason with posting all pictures from old event we met..
He might be trying to get your attention but he sounds a bit flaky. Deleting his account, coming back 4 days later. It's a bit sus.
yeah sus as today he watch my story after an hour and dint see rest of em my friend said he might got hint from u that u are not interested when u didn't like back his stories like he did , by wht guy said online it is like when a man gets too much into a girl and she dont reply back to his efforts he creates self discipline for himself I don't know if that's in my case
That’s weird to me.
ok so this guy posted a story saying he is going to delete account for studies and then after 4 days came back saying ''it's for a reason'' , he posted all pictures from that MUN event and when i posted my story he was the first one to watch , any connection? This time he didn't tike my story my friend said it is coz i didn't like his stories but I don't know if he is tryna get attention by saying im going from insta and then coming saying coming back for a reason with posting all pictures from old event we met..
Yeah, they are working you over and having a blast 💥. Messing with your mind while doing shots 🥃 🥃
yeah sus as today he watch my story after an hour and dint see rest of em my friend said he might got hint from u that u are not interested when u didn't like back his stories like he did , by wht guy said online it is like when a man gets too much into a girl and she dont reply back to his efforts he creates self discipline for himself I don't know if that's in my case