he said I don't want to keep making you feel bad about me because of my insecurities. he is eager for me but always gets distant after intimacy.
That guy doesn't want to be in emotional relationship with you. He just wants a physical relationship but as soon as things get emotional he will start to run away. This isn't a good sign at all. You can never trust such people for a long term. The person who is willing to be your long term partner will never say such words rather they will be in a position where they are ready to change themselves just because they want to be with you and be the person you want just to show that you are important for them. Such people don't find excuses for being distant but rather say how can I be someone you deserve. How can I try to be a better person for you. But if he is running away and trying to avoiding to show such behaviour and shutting you down, he is definitely not your the one.
He's telling you that he has problems that may make him a poor partner and if you continue in the relationship you after likely to be disappointed Pay attention! When someone tells this, it's true. If you later tell him that you are unhappy with his behavior, he's likely to say "I warned you,."
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u Either he ain't in a place to be with you or not intrested and using it as a excuse but impossible to tell what it is
What do you mean, eager for you?
It is a polite way of saying it's me, not you.
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