Guys, if you’re about to hook up with a girl and you can tell she’s nervous. what do you do to ease her nerves?

[Anonymous]

[Agent_Elflord]

I’d mention that I’m nervous so she doesn’t have to say it and I wouldn’t have to ask if she is, then I’d ask if there’s anything I can do for her beforehand, maybe bring her a glass of water, and go over our likes, dislikes, and boundaries again.

[dinojames22]

First, slow down. Ease into it/her. Depending on the girls past experiences with guys l always have to consider if we are moving to fast for her and if that's putting her on guard because of past issues.

[Wise4myage]

Id think of a way to help her relax and not pressure her in any way.

[Asker]

Like what? How would you help relax her?

[Wise4myage]

Offer to give her a massage.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Talk to her and reassure her that she's safe with me and that I got her and that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to do and I won't be mad at her about it either

[Thirsty4more23]

Give her a nice full body massage from head to toe.

[spartan55]

Ask her to pull my finger.

[boggboss]

Most likely talk to her about it

[Asker]

You would just say “hey I notice you’re nervous”? Lol

[boggboss]

Yes we are about to have sex whybwould this be any more embarrassing I would say I can tell your nervous or somthing is wrong are u sure u wanna hookup or is somthing else wrong

[Anonymous]

I'm fucking her. So she can be relax