What is he? Choose an option?

[sadgirl0210]

Soo most of y'all know this but here is more information

* I was in the office getting my interview done and he knock on the door to get a cup off the desk ( so weird right )
* Then when I went for my orientation he was sitting there looking right at me. We eyed each other the first time
* He offered to train me
* We talk here and there
* We kissed
* Made love
* Hug
* Cuddle
* Held hands
* He comforts me
* He explains things to me
* He opens the door for me
* And etc

Like today he opened the door for me he said hi to me he gave me a ride back to where I stay at... and he said he couldn't talk / hangout this week.


He said he is not interested in me
But.. he did say I can fulfill his affectionate
But he does get jealous af when I'm around another man and he won't quit eyeing at me / protecting me

Friends / coworker

friends with benefits friends with benefits

He likes u

So confusing more then one option

Updates

1 y

He also kissed my forehead He laid his head on top of my head when giving me a hug

[DeviousD]

I decided to state my personal opinion in my own words instead of choosing one of your options, I hope this way will be provide greater insight & be more useful to you.

Based on your description regarding the situation you found yourself in a couple of weeks ago concerning your coworker I would say that it very much depends on how you see him, & what you yourself crave & are seeking to accomplish with such a situation. If you're interested in more than just a friend's with benefits relationship & hope to gain his full attention some time in the future then I apologize, but unfortunately you should probably cease all non professional contact with him immediately, & of possible I would even say limit any interaction with him altogether, even that which could be considered a professional endeavor. He has his main chick at home, & this is a clear & cut "has his cake & wants to eat it too" ordeal. Based on the parameters he has described to you I can promise that you, as the side piece will never amount to anything more than 49% of what he holds dear, where as his main chick reserve's 51% at all times, & this goes back to your own want, needs, hopes & dreams. If you are comfortable in knowing that you will never be the main focus of his desires, if you view him as a cheap way to have fun & you're cool with adhering to his demands, then by all means girlfriend use that piece as a warm body to create some sort of semblance of love & connection to another human being as long as you both see it within the same frame of mind, no harm, no foul. I mean if you wanted to get deep & sentimental you could take a step back yourself & see how this successful means of fooling around you have provided him does at the end of the day carry the potential to cause pain for the young lady whom has been fooled into believing that she is his one & only, but that's really not on you to uphold, where as it is him who's in a relationship that he is not being faithful in, but of course there are some people out there capable of seeing how their actions may cause pain for another, regardless of they know that person or not, so once again that is up to you to consider or not.

Too me it sounds like he has a solid one, whom he knows is solid & is taking the necessary precautions, no matter how limited they are to ensure she remains connected to him, & if you decide to uphold his demands than you are a mean to end for him to fool around on his main chick without any real repercussions for him concerning that relationship of which he sees as the most important to him.

Now one thing I will say is that he's being incredibly sloppy by muddying the waters with being protective of you & your interaction with other dude's. He needs to realize that he cannot have it every which way he wants it, no matter how deep in his feelings he might get when observing you perhaps flirting with someone else. He's made it clear that you're not his priority, & if he somehow believes he can have it that way, while also having his main chick to happily come home to, with you being completely okay with all of the above then this boy may be delusional because I get the sense that since you're even here seeking opinions on this workplace expenditure you found yourself in that you likely have far too much self respect to provide him with the free rain ability to use your body, your womanly soul to quickly get his jollies off at his discretion. So regardless of how you decide to approach him & this situation I would definitely suggest that you nip that in the bud immediately, because he's being incredibly selfish by having his most important main chick at home he can love on, & having you, the side chick whom he can also, at times love on, but make it clear that you'll never replace his priority, but also take it upon himself to actively prevent you from satisfying you're own deep, down needs is crazy & is another glaring red flag that it seems too me that he isn't deserving of your attention, let alone worry, & just by you asking this question surrounding the predicament he has gotten you in shows that you're too good for his selfishness, but again I do not know you personally, & you very well may just be looking for some outside perspective to provide you with enough comfort to carry out this affair, & I wouldn't blame or judge you if that's the case, since once again he hold the cards & the duties to remain faithful to the person he is in a relationship with, not you once so ever, so I just wanted to make that clear & that this goes back to my initial assessment of how you decide to continue on with this affair should be solely based on how you feel personally & that's all, don't let him Wiesel his way into diluting how you wish to carry on from this day onwards.

With that being said, I hope I was able to provide you with a relatively meaningful amount of insight you may utilize however you see fit, & once again thank you for showing me the message function that I wasn't aware of, I really appreciate you personally seeking my opinion, I really do & I hope it was what you were looking to appease. I wish you the best of luck in this situation & hope you do find true & unfiltered happiness as it stands according to you, & you only. Take care!

[Guy13]

It seems like friend to like you zone.

[Jennz6]

I think he likes you