Long story short I recently reconnected with this guy I studied with and we are talking online. He won’t initiate much but does reply fast to my msgs and sends emojis etc, in the past he showed signs of being into me and called me a few times ‘by accident’, would say how I would make a great girlfriend etc.
He found out I liked him but said he didn’t feel the same at the time, now I’m wondering why he’s all into talking to me…but we are friends I guess.
I straight up asked him to tell me if he didn’t want me to keep messaging but he said it was truly fine and to look after myself…SO I’m wondering what are the signs a guy doesn’t want to talk you online and is he just being nice?
That’s a perfect sign he is just being nice.
Guys who like a girl spend quality time and make efforts to spend that time.
He’s just being casually consistent and doesn’t mind your engagement, but just isn’t ‘excited’/ looking forward to it, or other.
I’ve experienced similar with guys, and they said they didn’t like me, but I was chill.
Also, some of those who said that were into flirting and you know.. frequently relieving themselves, so I’m just guessing in your case, he’s keeping his options open, AND he also sees you as someone who isn’t outright annoying.
Doesn’t look like much interest to me, though.
Best to you sis!
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When he blocks you is a good clue in my book.
@Rosexøxø as usual captured it perfectly: "Guys who like a girl spend quality time and make efforts to spend that time." That's 100% right.
The only caveat I would add to this is that some people don't communicate well online. My wife is like that. That's not a pass for bad communication nor am I justifying it, just saying that it warrants a bit of extra examination.
He sounds a little insecure and not a huge fan of digital communication. He also sounds like one who is being careful not to lead you on. Your chances may be better if you two see each other in person. Have you tried meet face-face?
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I think if he always sends short messages like a few words or one sentence that is a sign he is probably not interested.
He is being nice and he surely likes your company. He likes talking to you.
Guys usually blow you off if they aren't interested at all
I think he doesn't want to commit to anything long term atm n just trying to be friend only
So you're saying guys and girls really can't be "just friends"
Is that what you're saying here?
Very strange guy very hesitant you will have to be patient
Why chatting when you can eat some popcorn?
Yes, he is just being nice!
If he didn't reply to u
He blocks you then calls the police
sounds like appeasement
He is just trying to be nice. Move on.
He ignores you
He doesn't respond
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