So, long story short…a guy friend of mine (crush of mine), is going through a tough time with his sister’s medical situation. She’s been at the hospital for several days and she’s fully sedated. He called me and he started crying out of the nowhere…. this was completely different for me and I didn’t know how to process it because during tough times I try to break everything down and find solutions. Anyways, I let him cry but I told him he has to remain strong not only for himself but his sister. That it’s important for him to be clear minded more than ever. Now I’m wondering if my reaction was a bit too cold? After our call I sent him a message too.
Ignore my age but I had some fair share of suffering after my grandmas death I was told the same to stay strong for my family. Just let him know he can bottle it up and its okay to cry as SlothySlob stated it isn't mean but a man's thinking can believe you are telling for him to man up. The message wasn't cold at all just helpful words
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Your reaction isn't cold or rude, it's the truth. Even if the reaction was cold, the text message made up for it. Listening to someone cry can be a massive deal and i believe you handled it well.
Are you still interested in him, now that you've... heard him this vulnerable?
If were you cold or not, you can argue for both. You've pretty much told him to man up, which, like I said, can be seen as rude or not.
why don't you ask him. Tell him how you feel.
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