As a man, any reasons why you would want to test, poke, or pester a guy who isn't a ladies man, player, or anything of that sort?

[Anonymous]

I don't know what it is about me but most men try to either provoke me or get under my skin or try to pester me

Most females avoids me completely... only in very rare cases they don't

I'm not "hot" nor a "Chad" nor popular amongst my peers

But I'm not a overweight nor unkept

[rabbitzzz]

I guess you are perceived as weak. No one wants to mess with a nuclear superpower.

[Asker]

But it's never face to face but other subliminal & passive

[rabbitzzz]

Are you sure it's not in your head? I mean why would you weed yourself out as being not a ladies man. I think if you have a penis you have potential.

[Asker]

I can't get along with the opposite sex... never could

From personal experiences MANY females have always either disliked me from the start & tried to start petty drama &/or tried to make me look bad socially

I don't know why they would act this way towards me right from the get go

[rabbitzzz]

Yah I can relate somewhat. I guess you gotta build your ego some other way.

[Asker]

But why do you think they would want to either start petty drama?

[Asker]

Sooo?

[rabbitzzz]

Well what kind of petty drama?

[Asker]

Getting standoffish, feisty, rude, right from the get go if we have to speak to one another

I don't flirt or give hints

They get like this from the get go

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s a Chad?

[Asker]

Another synonym for a ladies man

[BarryLiverstone]

Oh it is? Well a ladies man is just a guy who feels confident. So a chat must be an authentic guy

[Asker]

But I never understood why any guys would want to test me

[BarryLiverstone]

If you understood why would that help you?