Is it wrong for an unemployed guy to find an employed girl to start a family ASAP? Why?

[Anonymous]

Yes it's wrong.

No, it's not.

Other

[Keyboardkat]

Is he doing anything to find employment? Seriously? Or does he sit on the couch all day playing games on his phone? Does he have any education? What employable skills does he have to offer an employer? The point is, is he showing any sense of responsibility toward himself and his potential wife and family? Or is everything going to be on her? A normal man wants to take care of his wife and family, and will do what is necessary to improve his situation and make this possible. And he needs to be mature enough to be a real father to his children, and not just a sperm donor!

[Redroses14]

It depend on the person. As for me, being unemployed is okay as long as he loves me and cherishes me and is also very involved in my life.

Just like how there are house wife and employed husband living a happy life, I believe the vice-versa situation can also happen.

But if the person is unemployed only bcz he is lazy, then No. It's a redflag for me

[jennifer_bloom]

You don’t respect unemployed people? I know unemployed people married to guys with genius I. Q.‘s. 66% of these girls never graduated community college and have only high school diplomas.

[Anonymous]

Broke man is one thing, unemployed is a WHOLE other embarrassment. Even if the man just lost his job, his top priority should be financial stability, not a woman.

And VICE-VERSA.

[Anonymous]

Lol who will feed the family while girl is pregnant

[NamerOfStars]

Not wrong, but not smart.

[jahaims]

Duh.