What to do when he does not text me?

[Anonymous]

I like a guy for a long time. We became closer and few weeks ago he asked me out. We haven't been out yet but we kissed two times. But he only texts me when I am free for a date and stuff around that. He doesn't text me about usual stuff. We dont text like daily about our lifes. Would you let him go or what to do?

[Guy13]

My first thought would be is that he does not seem to have any sincere interest about me personally. It seems at this moment that I am important to him when he wants something only. I would certainly express my life vision related to Family Children, and other Big Life Plans and hopes.- Do this straightforwardly but gently as not to be overly demanding and pushing.

[coachTanthony]

Hopefully he doesn't play around on the phone texting because he is going after his dreams and passions in life. If anything it's a green flag not a red flag. Let him schedule the dates and you can schedule some video chats a couple times a week. Much better then texting.

[Anonymous]

I would talk to him about it first. I was in the same situation and my boyfriend said he honestly just doesn’t go on his phone a lot. Since it was something that bothered me he texts me a lot more now. We’ve been together for awhile so just let him know how you feel about it.

[RavVid]

I think by asking you for a date he is declaring a sexual/romantic interest in you. He could text his sister about her daily life but do you want to be his sis?

[AviatorTom]

When did texting replace talking with someone?

[olmille]

Ask him about it, sometimes its hard to know what a guy wants without asking him about it😒