When did you realize that men are out to get you and want everything you have?

[Anonymous]

• They want your body for sex
• your money
• your cash
• Your saved money
• your alcohol and drugs
• your children’s bodies (if they’re a pedo)
• your attractive female family members’ bodies
• your attractive female friends’ bodies
• Your house or apartment (to squat in or live in)
• your home cooked or bought food and drinks
• your attention (that’s why men flirt without ever asking you out or taking you serious at all) for their ego boost
• your attractive male family members and friends (if he’s downlow or bi or whatever they call themselves thrse days)
• to get all or any of the above, he will aim his arrow right to your heart.
  
  
• He will use methods like;
• flattery
• attention
• mind games designed specifically for you as prey
• Out right lying and making false promises such as about how he’s going to marry you or give you/do XYZ
• Dropping false ‘hints’ to make you overthink that he sees a specific life for you together in the future such as living in a nice house
• Feel free to add anything else

Updates

+1 y

A big one is he will fry to get your sympathy. How many times he you talked to, been nice to, given money to, paid for a date or anything or even have a man your body because you felt sorry for him? Do not feel sorry for any grown male. Sharks don’t have shame they will use any false image to get what they want with no remorse. They don’t think twice about it.

[PrettyPriya]

I am not even sure where to begin. While I agree that some guys are out for certain things, I do not think it is fair to say all of them are. My husband certainly was not like that at all. He was extremely respectful and a gentleman when we started dating. He still is to this day.

He did not just want my body for sex. We dated a good while before we were intimate. He also does very well on his own financially. So, it wasn't that either. Drugs and alcohol? Like what does that mean? I don't have or do drugs. He can buy his own alcohol.

He has never once hit on a female friend of mine or my sister. Honestly, I am going to stop at that bullet point because you just sound bitter. Just because you had someone do this to you does not mean that all guys are like this.

You just seem to want to rant, which is fine. If you don't like guys and think that is how they all are then don't date. Simples.

[CopperStove]

This is what happens when you always go for the loudest guy in the room. I have female friends that have the same issue and what I’ve seen with them is that they tend to be attracted to the “life of the party” the guy who really imposed himself on any situation. That’s fine if you take time to vet them, like really take time I’m not saying “oh I waited a week before I let him take me to his room.” Those guys are more likely to be the controlling and narcissist type. Not it all cases but you set yourself up for failure if you just go with whatever they want right as soon as they want it. No I’m not saying it’s your fault but there are common sense steps you can take to mitigate that. Maybe broaden your horizons a bit too as far as the men you date. My ex was way outside my usual type and me and her were together two and a half years. The breakup was very respectful and mutual and we’re still on friendly terms.

[DermalPunch]

What she mentions here has happened to me from the quiet ones who play nice and do the shy thing. The worst.

[CopperStove]

@DermalPunch yeah people can be hard to read. I’ve always believed it best to play get to know you games for awhile before going into a relationship. My honest advice is to be a tad bit old school with it. Date em for awhile without sex or anything like that. There’s this assumption that just cause guys want sex a lot that it means it will make them commit or care for someone, it doesn’t. But a lot of women I’ve found think it will, so they’ll engage in it fairly quickly and end up hurt when it amounts to nothing cause they guy wanted anything. Time trumps horny, play it slowly and see who he is and what he wants. If he’s actually interested in YOU, he’ll happily invest the time and be elated to have the opportunity to know you. When you have that sense of security the sex will be better and you’ll also have the opportunity to truly know someone. Don’t get much better than that. Gotta filter the dirt to find the gold, guys gotta do it too although too many of us don’t. That’s a lesson you learn rather harshly.

[DermalPunch]

Not necessarily true. Men can wait a year for sex and discard the girl all the same. There are so few good people left when it comes to caring and committed relationships.

[CopperStove]

@DermalPunch there’s no fool proof strategy. I’m just suggesting a good way to weed out a lot of the bad eggs. Your own intuition will always be important.

[Guy13]

Wow sweet lady…you know. I may have some of those tendencies but not all of them. And I like the way you recognize these things…growing in positive change would be so easy with you. May Intake you out and get to know you better.
Is that sincere enough to sway you?

[SueShe]

The first time I did realize that males wanted more than simple friendship is when they started looking at me in a "funny" way. That is when I knew that girls were basically only targets and objects to them. As soon as you start your puberty, boys change their attitude towards girls and that is when every single girl should start to worry.

Now, as far as my money is concerned, they can drool as much as they want, I don't have any and thus, they are barking up the wrong tree. I don't drink alcohol and don't do drugs and here also, they will be leaving empty handed.

My apartment is for my sole use only and nobody that is not a direct family member has ever been allowed in it. I have nothing to fear on that side.

To sum up: While I am perfectly aware what men want from a woman, they are unlikely to be successful with me because my first rule is not to allow them too close to me.

[HateyouxD]

I think it just hit me now
I always knew men are capable of being shits like women but I'm starting to see inshouldnt date men who are lower than me in everything because they do all the above to me... mostly. I don't know

[DermalPunch]

Ypu seem to have been recently hurt and likely deceived.

Me too.

They show the red flags early. Actually right away. We just ignore them.

[malwins]

This right here

[DermalPunch]

@malwins 💝

[Agape93]

Hey that's nothing, I take their souls and blood as offerings to my patrons

Don't be bitter over stupid shit, just enjoy yourself best you can.

[LazerBean]

Trashy people are attracted to other trashy people. If that's how the guys around you are, that's a *you* problem. I can't relate.

[Anonymous]

Ugh, you again. Your daily rants are getting old. It must suck to always feel so bitter.

[Anonymous]

You do realize that even though you always post anonymously, everyone knows who you are when you post this garbage every day, right?

[malwins]

Lomg time agi