Why does it make me wet if a man is cruel to me or I perceive him to be unwaveringly mean to me?

[Anonymous]

It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet.

[Anonymous]

It is possible that naturally as a "submissive" feminine woman, you're attracted to masculine men. And perhaps what you seek is assertiveness driven by extremely high testosterone levels. Perhaps the pheromones of individuals who have the highest testosterone levels itself is what attracts you. High testosterone levels do boost confidence and assertiveness, which can be perceived as arrogance. It is important to remember, however, that testosterone levels do not determine personality traits, rather factors that include upbringing, environment, and psychological makeup affect one's personality development and whether their high testosterone will fuel selfish arrogance or healthy assertiveness.

However, it is not uncommon for both men and women to seek abusive partners for a variety of reasons. Thus, if the high testosterone hypothesis fails and these individuals have high stress hormone levels instead, you're likely correct about them being "abusive".

You can easily assess yourself to see if it's true. Do you experience depression and self-loathing at least once a day?

It is possible that you have a pattern of seeking out abusive or dominant partners as a result of unresolved childhood issues or previous traumatic experiences. It is critical to seek counselling or therapy to help you understand the underlying reasons for your attraction to these types of relationships and to learn how to make healthier relationship choices in the future.

Furthermore, if you want to prevent or heal current physical ailments, you should work to resolve these issues. Psychosomatic illness occurs when psychological wounds manifest as physical ailments.

It is understandable that people suffering from depression may believe they are beyond help or are too disheartened to care for themselves. The fact that confident, assertive men are irresistibly drawn to your feminine beauty, on the other hand, can be a source of encouragement. If you believe you are unattractive, this can serve as motivation to change your appeal. However, if you have already realized your brilliance, you should strive for complete emotional and spiritual wholeness in order to ward off potential psychosomatic diseases from manifesting.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

Admit it, you want the meat and the meat is what you crave when you wake up in the morning. "It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." I'm just quoting you so I sound really verbose.

I'm just testing something out here so don't get mad that I'm not making any sense at all. I'm going to quote you again, "It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." Ahhh nice. I think it is time I add another picture.

See what I'm talking about, let me just quote you one more time, " It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." Ah yeah... I'm being verbose as all shit huh? Anyways about that... time for another picture.

See I'm making no sense but I'm making a really long post with lots of pictures. Let me quote you one more time, "It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." That's right and it's sort of giving me a lady boner. Let's do a picture...

See... You are impressed as you can see her in this quote, "It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." Yeah, very impressed... I can tell. Well, I'm going to see if I was awesome enough already and not really say much. Let me quote you one more time..."It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet." That should do the job... I have a bunch of words and some pictures.

[D_Bone_Steak]

This brings me to deep contemplation... allow me to quote her, "It’s not always or all men. But I guess when a guy sorta picks on me specifically and it seems like he’s focusing on me in a small or big way and continues to make me feel like I’m being used emotionally or like he’s preying on my soft personality and he’s an arrogant man or something. I’m rambling now cause I don't know how to explain this but if a man is unwaveringly cruel in my eyes towards me. It makes me wet" ... Yes... very deep indeed.

[Dіldophobe]

Can't stop laughing at this...

[D_Bone_Steak]

@Dіldophobe When the bots replace us as the trolls... the world is going to really start missing out on a true art form.

[Реrverted_creep]

Thanks for the MHO 🙂

[Zayed_]

Women have to make it clear because I’m getting tired of this,

Do you want us ti be abusive or not?

make it simple and clear because I’m disgusted right

fkn pussy power

[Asker]

Dominant men will be abusive or cruel. Non-dominant ones will not. I personally just prefer he’s that way with me if I like him and if we are married it’s best.

[Zayed_]

Okay then, hope you find an abusive husband

[Asker]

I’m so worthless none of them want to date or marry me.

[Zayed_]

Probably because you’re trash

[Asker]

I know.

[bowenw]

I suggest you try being with the kind of guy you're describing to see if you like it in real life. Please feel free to DM if you wish.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[PrettyPriya]

Sounds like you have a kink or fetish for this sort of behaviour. I don't quit get it but that is just me. You seem to be submissive and like people to treat you bad? That is just my guess. It is a psychological thing. If you don't want to be like that, best bet is to seek therapy from a professional.

Outside of getting help from a counselor, it is part of your personality and what you like. If you like being that way, that is your choice, so long as it does not negatively effect anyone else that is non consenting.

If you look around the site, there are loads of kinks and fetishes that seem odd, but for some, are completely normal for the person that enjoys them. While this is not something that I would enjoy, everyone has their preferences. It is whether you accept this or want to change it as to what you do next.

[Brando10222]

I think you like getting humiliated even during sex

[Asker]

It feels like I’m very weak and I sorta like it too.

[Brando10222]

Do you like being called slut and other words too during sex?

[Asker]

It never happened. I don't know.

[Brando10222]

Okay, can you dm me? I want to ask more?

[Wise4myage]

I bet you were raised in an abusive environment.

[Asker]

You are correct

[Wise4myage]

Do you see the connection?

[Asker]

One time I had this disagreement with this one man who was being cruel to me all the time. And I was so turned on like out of my control. But he felt just like my dad to me. He always reminded me of dad but in that moment it hit a nerve and I don't know. Weird to be turned on by that isn’t it.

[Asker]

So yeah it’s weird that the human brain works this way. I see what your mean.

[Wise4myage]

Yes, especially if your experiencing abuse and you learn to like it and think its normal.

[Wise4myage]

Thanks, I hope you are getting some help.

[Asker]

That sounds like what happened. Started liking it and it’s also the norm throughout my life anyway.

[exitseven]

My uncle used to say the sadists always find the masochists.

[Guy13]

That's odd. I would get upset. Either way, both of us should exit the room.

[chronic22]

Masochism they are different types of masochism just do some research

[boggboss]

Into humiliation I guess

[ron-samizu]

Something brutal, yet orgasmic happened during your time of puberty transition?

[andy530]

It’s a kink. Nothing wrong with it

[Luckycharms12]

Like to be degraded