My ex and I have been very back and fourth. he was in my school for his last semester but it was funny because he decided to break up but he would come up to me and talk to me. He drunk cried to me in August and in September he even wanted to tutor me lol. I told him I didn't want to talk to him so we had this weird back and fourth.
We tried talking about it but he said he was getting a lot
of anxiety dunno. back in September.
Anyway in December he came over to help me with some things.
I had asked him to come to some market and he said he would but he did not. I asked again and nothing. He helped me with some things beforehand so I thought why not.
He would message me Jan and Feb just simple things.
February he initiated to see me but I wasn't at the school.
Apparently he kept talking to a friend about me how I've changed and stuff.
A week later I had the courage to ask him out for a drink. He agreed but the day came and he bailed… driving 8 hours to see his brother bc it was his anniversary.
I told him I didn't want to chase him and if thats the case I will leave him alone. I dont chase for people and I can very well just block him if he wants to and i said goodbye (i actually blocked him and he noticed until i unblocked thats why i mentioned the blocking) I also mention I feel like he's running away from me so ill
leave him alone.
He texts me and says he is not running away. He says that he will
plan something and I won't have to plan anything and he will tell me.
Anyway on his way back to Canada the next day I am in class and he visits my school. Canada is 8 hour drive so I found it funny that instead of going home he came to my school “to see a friend”. however he kept waving at me and making eye contact and calling me. he kept on calling me and texting me and I asked him why he was here and he said that. Him and the friend chatted for
He also mentioned again in person that we would plan something its just hard combining schedules as my classes end at 9 pm and 7 pm and he does your typical 9-5 but commutes 1 hour every day and even stays longer he said.
So yea I completely understand.
We chatted for the whole
week from Monday to Friday but I being super busy would take hours to reply… he just left me on read Friday and I pa
What Girls & Guys Said
Opinion
2Opinion
The guy sounds like a moron for starters. Are you trying to get back together? Why did you break up?
he was depressed and i felt put aside. we were together for a year and everything was fine it was only the very last month. sex stopped and he addmited he wasn't in a good place. but we have been broken up for 9 months so not sure what to do..
i wanna get back together but dunno if me texting him or leaving him
alone …. not sure what to do
also he graduated in December so there was zero reason for him to be there
Why would you get back together? So you can break up again? Take it from someone who took WAY too long to learn this lesson: you broke up for reasons, those reasons will pop up again. Believe it.
we’ve changed. he's out of school. im basically him
now but i can handle more than one thing lol. he's more chill now. he has a job and a car and literally everything he wanted a year ago
Riiiight
He sounds really changed, blowing you off and canceling dates... smh
You don't know that he didn't have a reason to be there. You are assuming things to fit your narrative.
he didn't have a reason to be at the school. he came and was just standing there waiting for me lol. he’s graduated. he came from Canada why the hell would he be at the school lol
To see another friend?
So, he will drive 8 hours to see you (in your mind) but he flakes on plans and makes no plans himself... wow...
he did say he. came to see another friend but then why call me and wave at me Lol he kept texting me asking where i was Lol
Did you ask him why he was there?
Because he figured he could see you as well.
So he came to see another friend... hmmm... I thought he had no reason to be there? 😁
i did he just said to meet a friend. there's no way he drove 8 hours to meet a friend for 2 mins then when i arrive he was like “bye” to the friend and just stepped out with me Lol
even our mutual friend said there was no way he came to see that guy Lol.
he lives 10 mins away from the school but “decided to stop by” after 8 hours of driving lol
So he couldnt have hung out with the friend before you were there?
he was waiting for me to finish my discussion with my professor Lol. i didn't get up until 5-10 mins lol. he was just standing there talking to the friend but then turning around looking over at me
He lives ten minutes from the school? So why is driving eight hours? You know what? It doesn't matter. Again, you think he is all gung ho to be with you and he won't even make plans with you.
he went to Canada to meet his brother.
i mean he said he would make a plan and said this twice in text and in person Lol so I don't know
Break-up, oh 💩. Stalker into a clearly definable Situationship
hahahahaa gosh … i am unsure what to do
That’s what it sounds like to me. If you had broken up with him then definitely. He seems to be reacting as if you did break-up with him.
nah i asked him what he wanted to do and he agreed to the break up and then i cried and begged but he did so as well Lol