I met the man of my dreams and saw a ring on his finger. I decided I will do nothing about it because he is married. He started showing interest. Shows every sign of not being a player, but actually being really interested in me. He is married to someone he cannot have children with which is probably why he's in a crisis. I cannot tell if he's sincere and I certainly don't want to break the girl code. I am also emotionally torn. I have been avoiding him very hard but we have to see each other quite often and he shows signs of being hurt. He hasn't admitted his feelings to me, so I have decided to be oblivious. But I can tell the pull is strong and I don't know why I am feeling so unhappy in this impossible situation. Why did he have to show up in my life when it's already too late? I don't want him to leave his relationship with the assurance of my feelings. He should only do it if marriage is not working for him, not otherwise. He seems to like her but there is clearly something wrong because he shows every sign of being deeply into me too. He knows I am too conservative to have an affair and he doesn't show any signs of just wanting an affair. It's not purely lust but I can tell he thinks I am beautiful. I don't want to get pulled into drama, so I played dumb and to not notice but now my feelings are getting entangled. What advice do you have for me so I don't get hurt?
Take further steps to avoid him, and take no action. Identify what you like about him, and seek it out with a completely different man. No good will come of this.
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If you are going to 'do nothing' then why are you on here asking? You never should have let your feelings grow... for a fucking married guy. So gross..
Just take the L and move on. The karma you will receive from pursuing a married man is not going to be worth it.
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He'll come when he is ready my child. Better to regret what you did than to regret never doing it at all.
You accept that reality and move on, and commit to never be a homewrecker, because homewreckers are horrible human beings. Keep your dignity and self respect.
If you are more attractive of his wife, it won't be difficult for you to steal him from her.
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