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I'm not very good at social cues (Nerodivergent) and I was curious to when a guy will find a girl attractive. What kind of signs do you show and what do you do to get her to notice you?
Usually I'm just showing interest. Trying to get to know the person before I make any kind of gesture about being attracted.
Personally, I think focusing on "how do I know when they're interested" is a mistake. What matters is if you are interested, and you figure that out by understanding your emotions (which can take a bit).
Maybe you'll get lucky and find someone who sweeps you off your feet and makes you feel amazing with no ambiguous moments or awkwardness. However, that's very unlikely to happen in public.
What I do instead, is take any encounter as a potential place to meet someone, and just figure out in the moment if you have something more you want to say or not, depending on your mood and the mood of others.
Remember, it's as much on you as it is on them. Submissive people can get into the habit of just waiting and hoping someone takes interest. And some people can get that easily with no effort, but it's rare.
Everyone is potentially interested in everyone else, you just have to do the work to make yourself known to be available if that's what you want. Sometimes it's about being receptive to their questions, sometimes it's laughing at their jokes. You don't have to force anything, I still don't quite understand the forced politeness, it seems to defeat the point to me, but if you keep track of yourself and how you're feeling, that's a decent way to keep ontop of things in the moment with the other person to guide the conversation the way you want.
What helped me the most, as a neurodivergent person myself, was roleplay online. judgmental losers will look at that and be put off, but they don't matter. I got to understand the emotions, fantasies, and inner workings of so many different kinds of people in a (mostly) safe environment. I am so much better off with relationships now because of who I am and how I chose to live.
Neurodivergent people have special gifts that noone else. It can take some time to understand them and learn to use them right, but when you do, you'll have no trouble.
It can be difficult to tell if a stranger is interested in you, since everyone has different ways of showing interest and it can be difficult to read the signals.
However, here are some clues that could indicate that someone is interested in you:
Eye contact: If someone is staring at you or holding eye contact for long periods of time, it may be a sign that they are interested in you.
Body language: If the person leans into you, sits close to you, accidentally touches you, or turns to you while talking, these are signs of interest.
Communication: If the person asks personal questions or shows an interest in your life, they may be trying to establish an emotional connection with you.
Smile: If the person smiles frequently while he's talking to you, he may be trying to put you at ease and show interest.
Verbal language: If the person praises you or compliments you, it is a sign that they are attracted to you.
It's important to remember that these signs aren't always indicative of romantic interest, and the best way to tell if someone is interested in you is to ask them directly.
If you don't feel comfortable asking directly, try to interact more with the person and observe their behavior to get a better idea of their intentions.
Honestly the only reason i would ever believe is when they try to talk to you again or see you (asking for your number). Anything less i would never assume. Not even just an approach would convince me. One night at a bar this guy started talking to me (actually sat with me). We laughed, joked around. I thought he was interested. A while after his girlfriend came (lol we all ended up hanging out, she was cool). So yeah after that i stopped thinking that just because he approaches you, doesn't mean he’s into you.
He is not interested; you are just hoping. You wouldn't ask that question if he didn't appeal to you because you always know if those guys like you.
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The eyes, obviously.. They look at you with such concentration... and body language.. If they like being close to you or just happens to invade your personal space often... Conversations with them are different from others... it feels more personal... overall it's pretty easy to tell when someone ( stranger ) is into you... Even if you're socially awkward and stuff lol
I will probably ask her to go and do something together. Or try to talk to her more when she is alone.
A guy is interested if he tries to set up a method of contact or looks for excuses to repeatedly talk to you.
They're obvious. The rest is a matter of making a decision since we can all marry just one other person.
They try to approach you to speak to you.
They stare at you a lot
They treat you well
They pay attention to you
Eye fucking is the easiest way. If they look at you and make eye contact and look away also that's very obvious.
He will get your phone number and text you 2-4 days later to setup a date.
You have to start a conversation and see where it leads.
Hard to say bt a good one is that he’ll find any excuse to be around you or to tease you
I know for a fact that no one is interested in me, ever.
I am also neurodivergent and simply can't tell either. I gave up trying.
I greet them and introduce myself.
if you are rich you won't need a sign
He will dm u like i will do🤣
When they stare you down lol
Stares at my tits
ask them
