Currently a Freshmen in college. I met this guy through another friend and we’ve been talking since late January of 2023. Things started off well. We would talk everyday and sometimes he would text first and sometimes we would hangout.
But I did stupid things after his friend asked me to be his little spoon. (friends with benefits) We kissed and he went down on me but we never exceeded forward to sex because I’m just.. not ready for that sort’ve thing. Then some days passed and he asked me if he could fuck me the next day and he said he never felt this way before about a girl. I told him that it was sweet and that I wasn’t ready for that. Then things switched and I became friends with benefits with the guy I met and then he called it off because I didn’t do a good job.
And the guy i met in January became hot and cold with me and an hour ago cut ties with me. Along with his friend I did friends with benefits with. Is there anything I need to do or just move on?
But I did stupid things after his friend asked me to be his little spoon. (friends with benefits) We kissed and he went down on me but we never exceeded forward to sex because I’m just.. not ready for that sort’ve thing. Then some days passed and he asked me if he could fuck me the next day and he said he never felt this way before about a girl. I told him that it was sweet and that I wasn’t ready for that. Then things switched and I became friends with benefits with the guy I met and then he called it off because I didn’t do a good job.
And the guy i met in January became hot and cold with me and an hour ago cut ties with me. Along with his friend I did friends with benefits with. Is there anything I need to do or just move on?
What Guys Said
Sounds like he was just after sex, and when you weren't ready, it pissed him off.
Ohh okay. What happens if I see him again? Like in the same place I am? Do I just ignore him? His friends also guilt tripped me and said that I was the one that was using them for physical intimacy when it was them using me. I’ve never been physical intimate with anyone before so I feel like they set me up…to make me look like the bad guy when I am a nice person…I fell into their trap and I hate myself for it.