Guys why do u respond to a text message late?

[Anonymous]

Guys why do you copy the girl in how long she takes to respond to your message and u take much longer to respond. Even though you’re active and your snap score increases to me it makes me think you’re uninterested. But, when u reply back the texts are long and you’re asking me questions like you are interested.

i thought it’s bc you don’t want to seem desperate but to be honest it’s confusing

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The better question is, why do girls put so much value and judgment on how long a guy takes to reply?

It's because of girls that guys have learned to adapt with the way they text and message

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Reply too soon and we're "needy" and "desperate"

Take too long and we're "disinterested" and "fucking your sister"

[Asker]

Because we don’t want to be wasting our times on people who doesn’t rlly want to talk to us like sometimes u seem interested and then how long u respond u don’t
But what do u mean about how guys adapted?

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I mean we've learned to text differently than we want to, so as not to ruin our chances with you

[WanderingLoveWizard]

He's probably doing it in purpose

[Asker]

Yh but it isn’t like we will know what your thinking we just go off how u reply and how long u take or if u post something and your still left on delivered.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That's true

[slatyb]

Late? How late is late to you? People have more to do than look at their phones constantly. If you get an answer on the same day, that's fine.

[Asker]

Well ik I reply late but if ur going to take 18hrs to a day then it’s a bit like why but if I reply at 4pm he either replies same day or the next day.

[spartan55]

@asker
So what? It's all so exhausting, and it's entirely driven by women.

[Wise4myage]

If I do that, its because I wasn't into the girl.