The passage of time has a way of turning ordinary people into saints, and you may have done that with your memories of this guy. Remember that he broke up with you withoout any explanation.
In describing your current situation, "And that’s just how it is" doesn't really make a potential suitor feel very comfortable about you or your availability. To me that would be a huge red flag. HUGE!
You need to part ways with your current roommate and then maybe focus on finding someone else. Any guy who dates you now is gping to think that you are just desperate to have sex with someone and that will probably be the only reason for them to date you. Is that what you want?
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The one “who got away” broke up with me exactly 8 years ago last Sunday.
As usual it’s complicated what happened. I actually deeply loved her but didn’t want to be in a relationship at the time. I drove her into breaking up with me (regret how I did that). I didn’t cheat but I didn’t communicate either.
However she said one of the nastiest insults I have ever taken from a woman in my life a few weeks after we split (we met for business). Her voice was filled with shrieking disgust and treated me like I was less than human. It haunted me for years and years and years. I was in two other relationships since then. They didn’t end well either but I got over that quickly.
But you don’t know what I would give to hace a face to face conversation about what she said to me.
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If I got a message from an ex while I was in a relationship I'd not be pleased. Secondly if she was in a relationship messaging me while I was in a relationship I'd wonder what I ever saw in her. Just let it go and find someone available.
Don’t use him to get out of a current relationship you are not happy in…and jerk him around.
Test the waters first. Send a friendly message first and see how he's doing. If he's not in a serious relationship, you can get to the topic. Easy peasy.
Yes go for it. If he is all that, do what you got to do or you will be wondering the rest of your life.
Ben Afleck and JLO got bacl together, anyone can. he is probably happily married though. good luck.
God bless you just know the grass not grenne on the other side of the femce
Not until you’re actually single
Long distance relationships never work
Yeah mesage him whats the harm in that
It’s about time
Nope
ugh w/e
No, let it go.
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