Am I overthinking or am I deep in the friendzone?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I know I asked similar before I just can’t tell. Just how he says “aw thanks man” as though I’m like a bro to him or a friend

[Anonymous]

Lol first off, this is definitely a breach of privacy since you are sharing messages he wrote without his consent. Everyone wants to yell consent CONSENT.. but no one cares when it’s in this situation.
Secondly, he will probably fuck you. But he won’t wife you up, or commit to you. Most likely.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

His name, face or personal details are nowhere here? Also. What makes you think that he would only f me? You don’t know that.

[Opinion Owner]

Doesn’t matter. Still the contents is still wrong.. it’s like saying a dude slept with a Jane do that had no name and identity. Just because we don’t know them doesn’t mean you don’t need consent to share the information.

Also, I wasn’t saying you specifically if you were another woman in that shoes I would say the same thing. He hasn’t committed to you at all which is telling.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Why would he commit to a girl he met 3 weeks ago?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol three weeks is a long time. If he hasn’t made up his mind that he wants to try and commit to you.. then you aren’t in consideration. A man will know whether your worth the time and effort in way less time.

[mommymommymommy]

You'll always be in the "friendzone", until you make a move

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Ugh why is life hard. If he was interested he would’ve flirted with me but he hasn’t

[mommymommymommy]

Right

[Still-alive]

have you guys kissed or done anything real intimate? how often if so?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Nope never! He’s just a guy from the gym I like that I added on fb and started talking to a few weeks ago.

[Still-alive]

Have you or him asked each other out yet?

If not i say just friends. Maybe try asking him out? That would be a clear message that you want more with him.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Is it typical for a guy to befriend a girl that came to him that he has no interest in or isn’t attracted to? After I started texting him he came to me irl first. But I guess I should just not get hopes up as he could just be a friendly / outgoing guy.

[Still-alive]

Sometimes especially if he's the shy and unconfident type.

Why don’t you try asking him out though? Someone here should make a move. Why not you?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I will eventually but I really don’t think he’s interested, so I’m going to wait to do it in person so I can clearly see his reaction

[Still-alive]

Ok good. Its the best way in my opinion

[Bklynbadboy12]

Instead of assuming why don't you just ask him? Are you afraid to ask him?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Of course I’m not afraid. I have common sense so I don’t want to ask and risk feeling uncomfortable or rejected around him

[Bklynbadboy12]

You don't think that better than guessing and rejection is a way of life it happens to everyone so if your afraid of that then don't date cause it's bound to happen

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I can date I just won’t be the one making first moves

[Bklynbadboy12]

Ok I got you

[Anonymous]

That's horrible no man should call a girl bro or anything similar.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

horrible is a bit extreme. I don’t think it means ill.

[MrCommodore]

Yes, I think he friendzoned you.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I was sure that’s a friend zone but he’s trying to be sweet about it not to brush me off and hurt my feelings. Maybe I should compliment him in person and see how he reacts or accept it and move on cause it seems like he’s trying to be nice / civil to name either way

[MrCommodore]

The length of your messages versus the length of his messages is what caught my attention, he is being friendly, but not flirting or showing romantic interest.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Maybe he thinks I’m just coming to him as a friend so he’s trying to show me the same energy back but doesn’t feel the need to flirt because I haven’t? And we also have to go to the same gym so maybe he doesn’t want to seem like a flirt.

[MrCommodore]

The messages feel like you are more interested, but maybe that's just because your messages are longer. If he fancies you, I'd expect him to be at least matching your messages. I'm not trying to be negative, I just don't see it for now, but maybe that will change.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m the blue message! His is longer but yeah your right if he likes me I’ll know soon enough!

[MrCommodore]

Oh shite 😂😂, I got that arseways!!!
Maybe he is interested then, I misread those.