My ex has moved onn and chose to ignore me and that is perfectly normal after all.
It all started when after break we choose to be flings as both of us didn’t want relation. Since being flings demanded non exclusivity, I choose to have many other dates and flings as well.
But once he came to know of my flings he cut off all ties with me and said we never had sex and all and ignores me rather than acting normal. Even when he tried to act normal, one can sense he is acting too hard to look normal. He doesn’t act like this to other girls.
As this hurt me, I cut off all contacts. I didn’t ignore him but choose to move forward.
However he ensures at least one form of communication is always open between us
As I decided to not talk to him, his friends, whenever they are together sends me his snaps despite knowing the situation.
Once I contacted him for a professional help. He first acted like he is talking to someone by my name, despite me being the only contact in my name in his phone.
When I asked him for a help, he denied knowing it but on the very next day, added the same knowledge on his profile update.
he would constantly update his profile (where we are connected) by posting things that would irritate me or create jealousy.
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Based on the information provided, it's difficult to say for certain what your ex's motive is for his behavior. However, it's possible that he may be feeling hurt or jealous about your flings and is acting out in response.
It's also possible that he may be trying to maintain some level of control or influence over the situation by keeping one form of communication open, or by posting things on his profile that he knows will bother you.
Regardless of his motive, it's important to prioritize your own emotional well-being and not engage in behavior that you find hurtful or manipulative. If you feel like his behavior is negatively impacting your mental health or sense of self-worth, it may be best to cut off all communication and focus on moving forward with your life.
If you do need to communicate with him for professional reasons, try to keep the conversation focused on the task at hand and avoid getting drawn into personal issues or conflicts. Remember that you have the power to set boundaries and protect yourself from any behavior that makes you feel uncomfortable or unsafe.
So you know how he acts towards all other girls he encounters? You must stalk the shit out of him. You also somehow still know all the names in his phone? How is that? Why do girls always say shit like this? Positioning how you feel as the absolute truth is disengenuous.
Who knows why he is doing all that shit. Probably to aggravate you. Apparently it's working effectively. Why does it even matter to you at this point though?
We shared common friends. Moreover he used to give his phone to me.
Does he still give it to you?
Share or shareD common friends? I don't get how that matters either. I'm sure all of your friends were somehow able to move on after you two broke up.
If you still love him, why are you having flings, hook ups, fwbs, one night stands, sex with many others, or whatever else it's called?
I don’t have feelings. All what I’m trying to say is him constantly trying to irritate me.
Oh. I get it. Then block him and ignore him. You post about him often on here which usually means you love him but trying to show you don't.