Should I pull back from him?

[Anonymous]

I’ve been talking to this guy, he will text me first every morning, and we normally talk through out the day.. but he’s got a-lot going on, trying to get his life back together after a bunch of things happening the past few months (which he’s opening talked to me about and I’ve been supportive of him/encouraged him through his struggles) he’s told me how thankful he is of me for being there for him, and how I’ve been the only one to really stick around and be there for him.. But I also kinda feel maybe I’m more emotionally involved than he is and kind of feel the need to pull back.. He’s never openly told me how he feels towards me, and I just feel maybe he’s got too much going on and don’t wanna press him for a relationship even tho it’s something I want… I just don’t know if I should be patient and see where things go once he’s more stable.. or pull back & move on.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you care about this guy and want to support him, but you're also feeling uncertain about the nature of your relationship and whether he feels the same way you do. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and emotional needs in any relationship, and to communicate your feelings and expectations clearly.

If you're feeling emotionally invested in this guy and want to pursue a relationship with him, it may be helpful to have a conversation with him about your feelings and intentions. Be clear and direct about what you're looking for, but also be willing to listen to his perspective and respect his boundaries and limitations.

However, if you're feeling like you're more emotionally invested than he is, and you're not getting your needs met in the relationship, it may be helpful to take a step back and reassess your priorities. It's important to recognize that you can't control how others feel or behave, and that it's ultimately up to you to decide what you're willing to tolerate in a relationship.

If you decide to pull back, it's important to communicate your intentions clearly and respectfully, and to prioritize self-care and support from friends or professionals as you navigate your feelings and emotions. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and care in any relationship, and that it's okay to prioritize your own well-being and happiness.

[BrendanAy]

You should text him to ask what time of the day each week he is available to talk to you and routinely stick to those timetables. If guys have full time work, then they generally could only talk to you during after-work hours / public holidays /lunch breaks. If they are still studying, then there is more time flexibility.

[dudeinohio]

Talk to him about how he feels about you. I'd say stick with him.