We’ve texted everyday since Friday but still he hasn’t set time and place for coffee date?

[Anonymous]

He asked to grab a coffee with me while he was away on trip. We agreed to meet after this past Friday when he’s come back from his trip.

We’ve texted everyday since Friday. He hasn’t set time and place for the coffee date yet. He’s asked if I’ve had busy week and what I’ve been upto etc but why hasn’t he set time and place yet?

does that mean he isn’t really that interested?

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What do you think?

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Bump

[strateguy632]

less than 3 days wait like Monday, a guy probly feels too hectic to set a date. remind him he offered. if you waited 3 days he probly has someone else so you drop him.

[Asker]

Wouldn’t be desperate if I have to remind him?

[spartan55]

I will guess it's because you aren't showing him any interest.

[Nikki1989]

It can't be too serious if you are only texting. Talk to him.

[Asker]

What should I say to him?

[Asker]

I want to him to show effort. I’ve been burned before by guys that really weren’t that into me

[TrillXHippy]

Another post about a guy having to initiate something. Awesome. Why don’t you set a time and place for a coffee date then?

[Asker]

If I have to do that doesn’t it show that he isn’t really interested to meet me?

[TrillXHippy]

If he does that and shows up then that means he’s interested. If you do it instead and he shows up then he’s still interested

[Asker]

Why hasn’t he mentioned the coffee date and set time and place in your opinion?

[TrillXHippy]

Maybe he thinks that you’re not interested

[Asker]

I’m turnoff by guys that don’t really follow through with their plans

[TrillXHippy]

I see fair enough

[Danny_dan92]

He doesn’t really care for it. Or isn’t in a rush

[Asker]

So it isn’t a good sign? What if he’s just taking his time and doesn’t want to look desperate?

[Danny_dan92]

That’s why I said what I said

[Asker]

Are you saying that he isn’t really interested?

[Danny_dan92]

Like I said, it could be either of those two things

[Anonymous]

Send him a reminder.

[Asker]

Isn’t that desperate?

[Opinion Owner]

Not necessarily, just keep the text brief.

[Asker]

You mean keep our texts brief? In what way?

[Opinion Owner]

Just ask him if he still wants to hang out.

[Asker]

But why is he still texting me

[Opinion Owner]

He likes you?

[Asker]

If he likes me why hasn’t he set time and place for us to meet?

[Opinion Owner]

Ask him?