If a guy moves on quickly and meets other girls does that mean he moved on?

[hellohruu]

We had a fight because he was acting possessive and mean and I blocked him now he seems to have moved on and meets girls daily does that mean he forgot about me?

[Finchie40]

It means he never truly valued you in the first place , he just liked the convenience of you , when someone can jump from partner to partner , they are a selfish person , that only really cares about themselves, they see no wrong in their actions that person sadly will never experience true love until they realize they can’t always be right and everyone else is wrong , because they only care about themselves, and what is best for them. Love only grows when 2 people can remove selfishness for each other, and make each other their top priority , understanding you can’t always be right and your partner is wrong , accepting each other’s flaws and understanding we are all imperfect people, When someone truly values you, they will fight to be by your side and fix whatever is broken , instead of running to someone else thinking that other person is going to save them , so by him moving on quickly just shows his true colors that he only cares about himself and trying to find another girl to tolerate his selfish behavior. The new girls’ will eventually catch on that he is clearly a selfish POS that he will eventually be left on the streets where he belongs , Realize you deserve someone that makes you their top priority and values you the way you value them. If he tries to come crawling back to you, do yourself a favor and tell him No way in hell

[hellohruu]

Ty. Actually I blocked him after he wanted a one night stand for a week. Immediately after I unblock him he messages me and we agree to meet up but he is hesitant and then starts to insult me. He is younger and says he likes older girls 🤣 but didn't wanna see me.. he really didn't care i guess ☹️

[Finchie40]

Do yourself a favor and go for older guys lol , not that age really matters , but sadly to say he more than likely hasn’t experienced much when it comes to girls ‘ it takes a guy a long time to learn how to fully respect and remove selfishness for a girl , He usually has to face the reality that it can’t always be about him. , I was that young guy once and if I knew then what I know now , I know things would of been a lot different back then honestly. When I was his age I honestly didn’t know how to remove selfishness , I was young , dumb and full of cum , Relationships with girls at that time was my way of no way , I honestly feel bad for all the girls hearts I crushed because I was selfish and only really cared about myself , Why so many young girls are going for older guys these days , mainly because we experienced more and understand girls more. We tend to learn from all the past mistakes we have made , and look at things from both perspectives. When before we didn’t , we just looked to get laid basically. We still want to get laid but most of us learned that we also want to be loved and for love to grow we have to remove selfishness for each other , Now I can’t speak for every guy but I can speak for a majority of us. But what I learned from relationships is selfishness is the biggest relationship killer , for lone to grow both partners have to make each other their top priority and remove selfishness for each other , if you can’t do that for your partner they will not be able to do it for you again it needs to go both ways, or it isn’t going to work period. No relationship is perfect but for it to survive you have to remember you aren’t single anymore , those single days are over , if it isn’t over then be prepared not be single again. Selfish people do not know how to experience true love because they only care about themselves and what is best for them and they will keep continuing having failed relationships until they realize they can’t always be right

[hellohruu]

Yeah he did seem selfish, also accuses me of lying often and always needs to tell me that he's better than me, he is 18 I'm 21. I like younger guys tho 😅

[Finchie40]

Sadly you are going to be experiencing a lot of this with younger guys then, because again younger guys are mainly thinking with their dicks , and the way the world is today with social media I feel bad for your generation because of all the nonsense social media feeds into our heads , I used to live in a time where social media wasn’t really even a thing and relationships back then were more based upon trust and respect for each and we valued each other more , compared to how it is today , We weren’t bombarded by thinking are partner is cheating on us or lying to us , we actually valued each other more and respected each other more , Nowadays everyone is a cheater and a liar , that will back stab you or is screwing multiple people, trust and respect is harder to come by to the point I feel lost myself in these times. I still hope for love and want to find true love but sadly it’s harder to come by these days , I feel social media played a big part on damaging the true foundation of what a relationship is supposed to be. But all we can do is keep trying. I tend to like younger girls more now these days , I think mainly because I feel like I can save her from all the heart break she is going to encounter dating guys her age or younger , I have dated younger girls and I have to say I had a way better experience with them compared to girls my age or older lol So even though age doesn’t really matter to me , cuz it doesn’t , the chemistry and connection and attraction is what matters to me , I have noticed that younger girls are topping the charts for my interest lately , mainly because I feel I can save them from the heartbreak they are more than likely going to encounter with guys their age , plus younger girls been coming on to me which is a huge turn on to me making it easier lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yep. Sorry. You block me we're done. Permanently. There was nothing to discuss when you blocked me then there's nothing to discuss now. Have a great life.

[hellohruu]

But you will insult me and play me and also act like you're better than me

[BoopBoopBeep]

None of that is screaming "make up." So he just moves on more childishly than I do. Okay... what's that change?

[Andres77]

He either didn’t really care about you in the first place or he’s doing it out of spite or both

[Andres77]

Is this online or a physical relationship?

[hellohruu]

Online, he's 18 I'm 21. We should have met up but he started demanding things from me which I rejected and then calling me names, which is when I blocked him.

[Andres77]

So he’s just a silly boy and not worth your time

[spartan55]

Probably not, but you weren't anything special to him.

[hellohruu]

Yeah seems like it

[DextroShade]

That's exactly what it means, he moved on because you wouldn't let him set boundaries so he's going to find a girl who will. If you want to keep a man around you will have to submit and let him lead the relationship.

[runnerboy]

He has moved on and so should you. Were you sexually involved with him? If so did that have anything to do with it?

[hellohruu]

No..

[dudeinohio]

It means he is getting on with his life and moving on.

[ArwenCalcifur]

Maaybe its just a rebound?
do you give advice or support?

[BarryLiverstone]

You blocked him so no way to know what he’s doing

[hellohruu]

I checked his other social media and also unblocked him

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t do that. You gotta move on like he has

[hellohruu]

😞😞

[BarryLiverstone]

Not happy?

[hellohruu]

Yeah

[BarryLiverstone]

Why not

[hellohruu]

I like him a lot but he moved on ☹️

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s bound to happen. Don’t you want to find someone better for you?

[KrakenAttackin]

Sure does, he's done with your bullshit.

[hellohruu]

I'm not a Bull