I think if you just act casual and don't avoid her then she'll understand that you don't actually like her... so what do you guys think?
This is why I like GaG so much. This is why I like words so much . And this why I love talking to strangers. I don't know how it works. And I might be crazy I understand what your words say but it's what your not saying . Is the part that makes more since to me and is what I hear the loudest.
So first of all did he tell you he didn't like you in that way or is it some thing that you Think.
And it's just a miss communication . And if that's the case then you might be missing out on the moment in time that was made just fir you . step back take a good look at the big picture again and tell or let this person know.. I have a feeling you took it down 1 path and that made him have to only look at it the way you pointed him
Time is time that has no time. And this is a moment in time.. and after this moment there will be another moment I don't know if this will make since to you or not it's kinda out there but I understand it lol
I’ve never avoided girls that have shown interest and it’s not mutual. If she is her and I have mutual friends and end up in the same place at the same time, so be it. I’ll be friendly but not flirty. I’m not about to call her up to hand out. If I feel no affection towards her, I feel I shouldn’t give her false hope. I’ve been there.
Because it's not that they are afraid that the girl will keep bothering him, but he just doesn't want her to fall in love with him any harder and deeper, if we don't like someone, we don't want the other person to think about us. It's just like you don't want to be touched by the person you don't have feelings for physically, you also don't want them to touch you emotionally and mentally too. You don't want them to think of hugging you, kissing you or anything. You just don't want that intimacy, even though it's on their side, but knowing that they do still makes you uncomfortable.
I think it is good you openly be her friend and support. Eventually when they know you as a person, all the fancies will fade.
Or you can be actually a good friend with the person and act normal. Avoiding is a recipe for disaster as the former will try to avoid rejection with good memories or what could happen which will turn into an unhealthy obsession and fall in unhealthy love
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I have acted completely crazy when I liked this one girl. I know I unintentionally confused her. My signs where hot and cold, up and down. I would avoid her one moment and be right by her the next. I'm pretty sure being around made me anxious, because my mind would go million times faster whenever she was close.
Because they won't give up. Had a female friend years ago and she asked to be more than friends 3 different times and she even tried to take advantage of me when I was drunk once. Feelings don't just disappear, they grow stronger when you're still around the person you like. Its easier for all involved to get some space so the feelings can die.
I’ve actually been through this before and i didn’t avoid her although not long after I rejected her she called me while drunk and was professing her love.
I couldn’t just hang up on her so I just endured the awkwardness and felt like she needed the biggest hug in the world.
From what I've read here you haven't even let the guy know that you like him. So how can you claim he is avoiding you. It's like girls think of something is true in their heads then it doesn't matter if it's reality or not.
Lots of guys do that, Its best to just be truthful or take your approach.
Did u let him know?
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