Guy really wanted me to go to a social event, then ignored me the whole time I was there?

[Bethany22]

A guy texted me to say how wonderful it would be to see me at an upcoming social event, in order to encourage me to go. But once I came, he most of the time forgot that I was even there. Do guys with strong attraction to a woman do that? I would have thought that if he was interested in me, he would at least make glances at me several times, like during pauses in the group conversation. But he found other things to look at. What's up with that behavior?

[StormChaser838]

He's a prick that's all. But you should have first gone up to him and just made small talk to give him a chance to explain or apologize. Always don't jump to conclusions and give the person a fair chance to say his side. A gentleman would not do such a thing no matter what. If he does not explain,,,, then you come down on him like a ton of bricks. Tell him you fuck-face, I only came to this piss-pot place because of your telling. Then rub it in by saying I canceled two of my top guy dates since I thought I would give you a chance, and you wasted my time by me coming here. But worse you did not even have the balls to at least come up and meet me. Now when I look closely at you I can understand why, what a small bulge you have down there, are they balls or pussy lips?

That's how you should treat such trash, you have nothing to lose but limp dicks. But my dear beautiful one, always remember most guys are like him and only a very small minority are like me who are careful when they talk and when they do, my word is my bond. Therefore, don't lose heart and keep engaging with more guys, it's a numbers game, and more so because as I said only a minority are sweethearts, just like girls. But remember in the future, reconfirm with the guy again and ask him are you sure you think I should go? and then get a proper feel if he is not full of shit. Just do it smarter, that's all, but you have to keep the focus. Also remember my pretty one, every prick you come across, you are one step closer to your bullseye guy. So just fuck these little clit-dicks, just flick them out of your mind like some little piece of dust. .

[AviatorTom]

He probably didn't want to be seen by others as alone, so you were his date. Suggest you talk with him and let him know you were disappointed that he didn't spend much time with you. Guys are sometimes clueless, unless you girls tell us what we did wrong.

[joeND]

Often my girl wants to talk to women at a party I want to talk to men friends , we go home together don't have to be arm in arm at a 3 hr party. We have an entire life together. Trust me too much of a person decreases the desire to be with them over decades.

[Anonymous]

i just think he's super social. nothing against you. but if he was actually interested, he'd pay more attention to you.

[OfMiceandMen]

He may have needed a plus one, but his real intent was to work the room and socialize with his friends/colleagues.

Not a very nice thing to do though. Kind of an ass, if that is why he invited you.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Somebody was there that he's interested in and he wanted an attractive woman on his arm to indicate to her that he is a desirable man.

[Curmudgeon]

I would have to ask what kind of event it was to get a better idea of how to answer this?

[Bethany22]

Just a casual gathering of acquaintances just to talk and spend time together.

[Curmudgeon]

Ok, so this wasn't like a business networking event. Somehow I was thinking along those lines. Now do you all know each other in this acquaintance group, did he know more of the people, or did you?

[Bethany22]

He has spent more time with them than I have, but more or less we know them equally well.

[Curmudgeon]

OK, in that case I would go with @AviatorTom on this.

[Bethany22]

thank you

[joeND]

It doesn't mean he doesn't like you. One has to learn to share a lover in public.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think you need to question him on this situation.

[red_knight]

He wanted you to do the chasing or he didn't want to look interested in you coz of some other woman around there to spoil future chance

[CubaPirate]

Sorry I 2as too busy admiring the tits to notice lol 😆

[TooHot2Care]

This is what we call Weirdo behavior.

[Shy_Steve]

It's hard to tell, He could be just Shy.