Is he hiding our relationship?

[heyitsmeagain01]

My boyfriend doesn’t post about our relationship on Instagram. He doesn’t mind me posting about us but he never does. When I asked him why he didn’t. He said that he wasn’t all about social media like me and likes his relationships to stay private. I feel like he’s doing it to keep his options open and doesn’t want any other girl to find out about us.

He told me that he could delete his social media if that would make me feel better. But it doesn’t make me feel better. I feel like he’d rather delete his social media so he wouldn’t have to post about us.

Thoughts?

[Anonymous]

I think you are overreacting. If he was truly trying to hide your relationship, he wouldn't allow you to post about you being with him.

You are also overreacting about him with him saying he will shut down his social media. A lot of people would also shut down their social media if they girlfriend was making a big deal about things.

[kylee2437]

That’s not true. My ex did this same thing and it’s because he was trying to hide our relationship. I think the more important question is if he post other important aspects of his life

[Opinion Owner]

@kylee2437 just because that's what happened to you does not mean every guy is like that. Geez too many idiots gets so worked up over social media.

[kylee2437]

Does he post other important things or people to him at all?

[heyitsmeagain01]

We don’t follow each other. My profile is public and his is private. I’ve never tried requesting him or he’s never tried requesting me either. I do notice his post count though. He hardly posts but has posted more frequently and I have no clue what it’s about

[kylee2437]

That’s very odd and a red flag that you two don’t even have each other on social media. No wonder why this is causing you insecurity.

[OlderAndWiser]

Other than your insecurities and the FB thing, do you have any reason to think he is hiding your relationship? Have you met his friends and family?

[Avicenna]

Not everyone is into social media. Do you have anything else to base these suspicions on?

[sheikalana]

What's this fascination about posting your private life on social media? I really don''t get why is it so important to show that on social media.

[In_Trance]

I don't think so

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one that asked you out and hit on you