I need this from a guys perspective. If I post a picture he (the guy I’m dating) get annoyed / tells me to delete it. But he always compliments random girls online?
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Some guys don't like the stance of their girls posting what in their minds are "provocative" pictures online "for other men to see." I'm guessing him advertently liking other girls pictures but not yours is his way of telling you he doesn't like you doing it, but it's kind of hypocritical of him because if some other guy is saying that to his girl who's posting pictures and he likes it, he is the other guys he claims you are posting for. It's a double edged sword, because you could see it from his perspective as his relationship boundary, but you're also your own person and can do what you want. I'd have a convo with him and talk about it and try to get a more clear picture of where he's coming from but also call out his hypocrisy if that's the reason. Also, if you guys aren't aligning on that issue either compromise or call it quits based on what you want to tolerate and what he wants to tolerate.
Because you're not attractive obviously. When you post pictures if he posts on it then he is associating himself with you in public space. He doesn't want people to connect you two and to feel social shame.
When he tells you to delete it, he can't comment on it because it isn't there anymore and therefore isn't associating with you and not feeling shame.
Instead he associating with more attractive women.
No, he tells me to delete if it’s of my body not my face
It is your body he isn't complimenting and telling you to remove? I stand by my position even more then.
You go to public parks but doesn't let anyone break-in to your private yard/property.