Yesterday I was at a party and I got harassed by several guys throughout the night. I've had a crush on this one guy for a few months and he was there and he was looking at me a lot real obvious especially when random guys talked to me. One time I stood near him and I heard him talk about me. Later that night I got harassed by some guy again and my crush had been standing there on the wall for a while and I always caught him looking at me then suddenly he pulled me aside and told me to come with him and we talked for an hour straight. Some random group of guys literally came up to us to tell us we would make a "cute couple" lmao
I knew this guy has a girlfriend though because I've seen them already. He kept calling me cute though and that I look like a doll or whatever and everything and he told me we should hang out today and that he'll bring his girlfriend because we're really similar he thinks.
I'm so scared like how am I supposed to act today? What does this even mean lol what the fuck. Help
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Hmm, the guy might be into you and he might be interested in seeing how you and his girlfriend get along.
I'd say you should just be yourself and be nice to both the guy and his girlfriend. Show that you're respectful and don't cause drama.
You can't really control what the guy thinks or does, but you can at least show him that you're not one of those "girls who go after every guy in a relationship".
Ew, first of all why would you want a guy like that, a guy that has a girlfriend but still trying to pursue you like what do you want that type of guy for? Do you think you’re going to replace the girl or something? This is incredibly weird.
Then on top of that, he claims he’s bringing his girlfriend. Wait, what? Why would you even go? What do you expect from this situation. The only way a girlfriend would consider going is if they are recruiting you in for a threesome by the way..
This whole situation is giving me a pick me energy from your side I don’t mean to be rude, but think about it this way, what if your boyfriend asked you to come with him to be around another woman would you be okay with that? Probably not because it’s weird. No, you’re not going to replace the girlfriend, and even if you did, he’d do the exact same thing to you if he found something better.
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