Guys, Why would a guy suddenly be turned off by a woman. Is he uncomfortable, because she is unattractive, creepy etc?

[Anonymous]

There is a man who I recently met, overall, typical nice guy. During our last encounter, we made eye contact when we spoke, he looked down at my chest (no cleavage, nothing tight, no stains, a girl in the group did the same), and laughed at my jokes when we spoke in a small group. He left the convo early to get a drink, soon after the girl left to talk to a couple. When he returned, he looked like was going to return our group, but split second decided to stay with the girl (they aren’t dating). Later the day, I found myself starting and he got caught in my field of vision, became flustered, walked to the guy I’m talking to, invited him to lunch with our group of friends, ignoring me, and rushed out. This guy has invited me to an event before. He’s attractive, but not my type, and I don’t think I’m his type, so nothing is coming from anything, but the incident left me confused. And we are going to continue to interact and don’t want things to get weird. Maybe I’m just overthinking.

[Nemesis2k7]

What turns me off from a woman, is her ego, her bit*hiness, if she is controlling. Or passive agressive. Been there. Done that. Oh, and if she constantly takes selfies, i know, she is a narcissist, and to run

[Asker]

Thanks for your help! I did none of those. Generally, I am known for having a playful and bubbly personality, so I’m really at a loss.

[serious]

Okay in that case there is a possibility that he does not find your playful and bubbly personality attractive. He does not like that.

[Asker]

@serious Sure, that’s understandable, bubbly and playful personalities can be annoying for some people. Thank you for your help with this!

[serious]

@Asker

You are welcome

[Avicenna]

I think if you sense you and him are not each other's type, there won't be sparks.

[Asker]

Very true. There is no sense in pursuing something that cannot work. Although, I suppose I never thought I was his type to begin with. It would have been a compliment to be considered. Thank you for your insight!

[Avicenna]

No problem!

[strateguy632]

unattractive, no because had been together. just getting bored is all.

[Asker]

Okay, I hadn’t considered that, thanks!

[Anonymous]

Like if she suddenly mentioned she was a feminist, or a leftist or a tranny.

[Asker]

Thanks for sharing! I hadn’t mentioned any of those to him.

[serious]

Well, for me yes there are plenty breakers and I cannot tolerate those.

[Asker]

I just want to ensure understanding, what does “breakers” mean?

[serious]

I apologize. I meant " Deal breakers" means those things aspects of a person that are an absolute "No' to me and is something I cannot tolerate.

[Asker]

Oh, for sure! Completely with you on that. Thank you for the clarification :)

[serious]

No problem and you are welcome.

[Anonymous]

in this case he’s probably nervous

[Asker]

I suppose, I cannot understand why. I don’t consider myself neither his type nor intimidating. But it’s vain of me to believe I was the cause of the shift in behavior. It could have been many variables. Thank you for your help!