There is a man who I recently met, overall, typical nice guy. During our last encounter, we made eye contact when we spoke, he looked down at my chest (no cleavage, nothing tight, no stains, a girl in the group did the same), and laughed at my jokes when we spoke in a small group. He left the convo early to get a drink, soon after the girl left to talk to a couple. When he returned, he looked like was going to return our group, but split second decided to stay with the girl (they aren’t dating). Later the day, I found myself starting and he got caught in my field of vision, became flustered, walked to the guy I’m talking to, invited him to lunch with our group of friends, ignoring me, and rushed out. This guy has invited me to an event before. He’s attractive, but not my type, and I don’t think I’m his type, so nothing is coming from anything, but the incident left me confused. And we are going to continue to interact and don’t want things to get weird. Maybe I’m just overthinking.
Guys, Why would a guy suddenly be turned off by a woman. Is he uncomfortable, because she is unattractive, creepy etc?
