How can I stop taking a guy not being interested as me being not good enough or pretty enough?

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[Ozanne]

First of all, we can all see your profile picture and can clearly see that you are a lovely girl. But you have to take heart that not all men are going to find you their type. Some men might be into blondes or redheads, for example. That's not you. Some men might like the natural, country girl, no-makeup look. That's not you either. You appear to be a dark haired girl who has an urban romance style. Many guys would love that, but some guys really will have another type in mind, and it has nothing to do with you--but more to do with their own preference.

When you are interested in someone and they don't seem interested or flat out reject you, bear in mind that you may do the same thing with other men, correct? There might be nothing wrong with some men, but they just don't mesh with you and you know it. It has nothing to do with what's wrong with you, because nothing is. It's just a simple case of a guy either not being ready, or looking for something else.

If a man is not ready for love, he usually doesn't want to jump into anything either for fear of breaking a girl's heart. So sometimes, he is rejecting you for his own good too. It's really not a big deal if you think about the fact that it's not you, it's just either not good timing or not what they're after, no different than how we women are when we feel the same way. You know you can turn heads and attract some men, so you have your pick of the men who do find you attractive. If not, you keep trying until the right one is ready for you and you're also ready for him. ♥

[HiveBee]

That is usually what that means but you're cute so it can't be that.

A lot of guys just want to fuck. If you're not giving out "I only want to fuck" vibes, he might lose interest.

And that will probably happen most of the time as long as you're not just giving out free pussy men will keep it moving.

It could be who you're talking to and where you met them. At the club every guy is there for only 1 reason. To get some pussy.

On the flip side, the man wirh confidence that you like is probably getting a lot of pussy and he doesn't want to settle.

That's what happens to a man when he develops some confidence and realizes that it makes women want him. He is going to take that power and fuck as many women as he can.

He's not stopping to settle for you. He's one of the few men women want and he is going to get all he can.

Basically, you can't put your own value on there, cuz you don't wtf the guy wants. And we all want to get laid.

We all want to at least develop the skills to get laid, know we can do it, feel confidence, and then settle down and get married.

I think a lot of guys cannot settle, until they know that they have the tools to find the woman they want. The tools to have their needs satisfied.

Until then dudes aren't trying to settle down.

You're shit out luck.

[Billlewis]

The solution to your dilemma is very easy -- just give yourself a personality makeover -- and start acting like a spoiled bitch goddess. Seriously. If you present yourself as a woman who thinks every guy on earth should be lining up to kiss your ass, guess what will happen? You'll have a line going around the block. You're welcome to message me if you'd like to discuss this further.

[Anonymous]

You have to have thicker skin. If that’s you. That’s you. No one can tell you how to act or feel. Only you can change that by making a conscious decision not too

[Nifrayu]

Stop thinking about it as quality and think about it as compatibility.

[shortster]

Remember that not everything is about appearance. And that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

[Al_Musafir]

Simply don't talk to him? Is that too hard?