Silence after two seemingly good dates?

[Anonymous]

I met a guy online and we went on two dates. He messaged me first in the app, I asked him out for the first date & after 3 days since the date he reached out. I replied & asked him out for the second one. He agreed, we set the details but he cancelled once. He rescheduled to another day and finally we met again. It seemed like he was enjoying these dates, during the second he initiated cheek kisses twice & he was also flirtatious by sitting very close to me. Both dates lasted like 4 hours or even more. I haven't heard from him for 3 days now and I feel I may not hear from him again. What concerns me is the lack of communication and also his messages were usually very short. Not sure how to proceed at this point. I think it's his turn to reach out and ask me out this time. Is he not interested or is he waiting for me to text him?

[_Maya_]

I don't necessarily think he isn't interested. I wouldn't come to that conclusion just yet. It would believe someone that wasn't interested in you would spend four hours on a date... twice. I would just hang tight for a little bit. You don't know if something came up and he got super busy. You never know if there was some family emergency for example. I would give it a week and then you have a couple of options. You can either write it off as he is not interested or you can send him a message. That is your choice. I do agree that the ball is in his court though.

[spartan55]

He should definitely be taking his turn. Give it a few days if you'd like.

[sheikalana]

He doesn't seem very interested. I'd say move on.

[Anonymous]

It's 2 hangouts he doesn't owe you 💩. He found someone he's interested in and it's not u