Do u think men should be careful around girls they dont fancy?

[Anonymous]

Just incase some think theyre flirting when theyre not. It can lead to embarrassment or worse

[genericname85]

is it my fault that a girl i don't fancy finds me attractive?

[Asker]

No, just saying to be careful not to lead her on

[genericname85]

excuse me but i will not live a life walking on egg shells just cause someone else isn't in control of their emotions. there's limits to consideration. obviously i won't straight up flirt with a girl i'm not interested in but i won't change my "normal behavior" just cause someone could mistake it.

[Asker]

Im Not saying that lol like atm im not sure if a guy likes me or the things he's doing around me are in my head people r saying him stroking my hand was just him being nice lol

Besides the op was a q:)

[genericname85]

well then what are you saying when you're asking "should men be careful around girls they don't fancy"? like them having to be careful would only be the case if the other persons emotions would be their responsibility, which i think they are not. and them not making a conscious effort to misslead you, that's all you should expect from a man.

so watch him. is he's doing the same things to other women? cause the only way you can know whether the way he treats you is "unusual" for him is by observing how he treats others.

[genericname85]

or you can straight up ask if he's flirting. that's the most easy way to deal with it.

[Asker]

Like i mean touching girls can come across as flirting, even if people aren't aware theyre doing it. Its just an example :)

[Asker]

Ye i do that n so far i dont think he does it with others but it still could ne the way he is

[genericname85]

so you should change your entire character and behavior pattern cause one person "could" get something wrong? naw that logic makes no sense to me. i undersand it sucks when you're unsure about how a person feels towards you but instead of expecting them to not make you feel that way, you should learn yourself how to manage that.
take responsibility. don't shift responsibility to others. that will make you a way greater partner and way more attractive to men ;)

[Asker]

No i didn't say that lol i was asking if people should be careful about flirting, if u flirt in general with everyone thatd make it obvious its not about 1 person, but say u r v chatty with everyone then u get to that 1 girl n u dont talk to her thats gonna make her think things. Im only asking this cos of society n some girls can cause trouble for men

[genericname85]

i think that you shouldn't flirt with someone you're not interested in. i fully agree with that.

[Anonymous]

Id be more careful around the girls I was attracted too.

[Asker]

😂😂Well we know that