Why is he interested in me after telling my friend that he doesn’t give a damn about me?

[Anonymous]

My silly friend told my longtime crush that I found him Cute. He told her that he was very flattered but didn’t give a shit about me. Now years later he watches me, acts nervous around me and wants me to notice him and his friend tried to ship us together. What’s his problem now? Does he only miss the attention I gave him? I’ve been ignoring his stares and glances for a year now but he doesn’t stop.

[boggboss]

Could be anything from missing attention or thinking you are a easy option or actually liking u

[Asker]

After me ignoring him for a year could he really still think I was an easy option?

[Asker]

And if he really liked me why would he have rejected me back then?

[Asker]

He just said „I don’t care about her, not my type etc“

[boggboss]

Because people change him liking u now has nothing to do with rejecting u back then

[Asker]

I am Still not his type physically ….

[boggboss]

How do u know that sorry?

[Asker]

The women he follows on Instagram and all his former crushes were super skinny tall extroverted white women. I am a petite introverted woc

[boggboss]

So u don't actually know his type you are assuming to know and even them all u are going off is weight race and if someone is a social butterfly or not if u believe he is not into u why do u care so much ignore him and move on

[Asker]

Ok how would I know for sure? He would never admit that I’m not his type. And men marry women they don’t really love all the time

[boggboss]

You wouldn't be able to know apart from learning with time

[boggboss]

Ot need to be a mind reader